Ann Lee was born in
Manchester, England, the second child of eight born to her parents. She was baptized privately at Manchester Collegiate Church (now
Manchester Cathedral) on 1 June 1742, at the age of 6. It has been claimed that her parents were members of a distinct branch of the
Quakers and too poor to afford their children even the rudiments of education, but this has been disputed because scholars have been unable to find her name in relevant records. Ann Lee received no formal education, and remained
illiterate throughout her life. Ann Lee's father, John Lees, was a
blacksmith during the day and a tailor at night. It is probable that Ann Lee's original surname was Lees but was changed at some point to Lee. Little is known about her mother other than that she was very religious and pious. As often happened in those days, her mother's name was not even recorded. When Ann was young, she worked in a cotton mill, then as a cutter of hatter's fur. At the age of 20 she worked in a much less dangerous occupation, as a cook in a Manchester
infirmary, which was also the local insane asylum. In 1758, she joined an English
sect founded in 1747 by
Jane Wardley and her husband, preacher James Wardley, which was the precursor to the Shaker sect. That sect was commonly known as the Shaking Quakers due to their similarities to the Quaker faith, but also their practice of cleansing from sin through chanting and dancing. Jane and James believed that the Second Coming was imminent and that God would return in the form of a woman. Ann Lee proclaimed herself to be that woman, and later received her title of "Mother" due to that belief. Ann believed, and taught her followers, that it was possible to attain perfect holiness by giving up sexual relations because she believed sexual relations to be the great sin of
Adam and Eve. Like her predecessors, the Wardleys, she taught that the shaking and trembling was caused by sin being purged from the body by the power of the
Holy Spirit, purifying the worshiper. Beginning during her youth, Ann Lee was uncomfortable with sexuality, especially her own. That was partly due to her experience living and working in the city, seeing the sin around her. Her repulsion towards sexual activity continued and manifested itself in her repeated attempts to avoid marriage. Eventually, her father forced her to marry Abraham Stanley (or Abraham Standarin). They were married on 5 January 1761 at Manchester Collegiate Church. She became
pregnant four times, but all of her children died during infancy. Her difficult pregnancies and the loss of four children were traumatic experiences that contributed to Lee's dislike of sexual relations. Those losses also led her to truly question and solidify her beliefs. Lee developed radical religious convictions that advocated
celibacy and the abandonment of marriage, as well as the importance of pursuing perfection in every facet of life. She differed from the Quakers, who, though they supported
gender equality, did not believe in forbidding sexuality within marriage. The shaking Quakers also believed in an inner light and personal revelation, which was in common with the Quakers. ==Rise to prominence==