Charlotte Seymour made her
London season debut in 1854, but remained unmarried. That same year, she met
John Spencer, Viscount Althorp. In May 1858 John, now 5th Earl Spencer, proposed to her. On 8 July, they married at
St James's Church, Piccadilly in a crowded ceremony officiated by her uncle
Lord Arthur Hervey, rector of
Ickworth. The couple had a previous family connection through the earl's stepmother Adelaide, as she was Charlotte's cousin. He had inherited the earldom the previous year at the age of twenty-two, upon the death of his father, the
4th Earl Spencer. A politician from the
Liberal Party, the earl was a close friend of the Prime Minister
William Ewart Gladstone and served in his cabinet. Charlotte's family, including her maternal grandfather, were strongly affiliated with the
Conservative Party. Despite this, Charlotte supported her husband during his political years and was outspoken with her views; her diaries contain memoranda on
Fenianism and the
Eastern Question. The Spencers were connected with the British royal family. From the late 1850s to mid-1860s, the earl held the position of
Groom of the Stool to
Prince Albert and then to
Edward, Prince of Wales. The latter made his first visit to
Althorp, the Spencer family seat, in 1863. The following year, Lord and Lady Spencer accompanied the Prince and
Princess of Wales to Denmark. The Spencers were entrusted with the care of their infant son
Prince Albert Victor, when the baby was required to return to England on the royal yacht during the trip. Lord and Lady Spencer had no children. She died on 31 October 1903, and was buried at the parish church of St Mary the Virgin in
Great Brington, Northamptonshire. Her husband died on 13 August 1910 and was buried beside her. He was succeeded by his half-brother
Charles as the next Earl Spencer. During her lifetime, Lady Spencer was the subject of many paintings, including one by the French artist
Louis William Desanges that was painted at Althorp. In 1907, her memoirs were published. ==Philanthropy==