Yen Mah had an older sister called Lydia (Jun-pei) and three older brothers, Gregory (Zi-jie), Edgar (Zi-lin), and James (Zi-jun). She has stated in
Falling Leaves that she did not use the real names of her siblings and their spouses to protect their identities but she did use the real names of her father, stepmother, aunt and husband, while referring to her paternal grandparents only by the Chinese terms 'Ye Ye' and 'Nai Nai'. Yen Mah also writes of her grandfather's younger sister (Yan Shuhe), whom she calls 'Grand Aunt'. She cites Yan Shuhe as founder and president of the Shanghai Women's Commercial and Savings Bank. Shuhe's colleagues would often call her 'Gong Gong', meaning
Grand Uncle. a businessman, and Ren Yong-ping, an accountant. Yen Mah's legal birthday is 30 November, as her father did not record her date of birth and instead he gave her his own (a common practice prior to the establishment of the People's Republic of China in 1949). Two weeks after Yen Mah's birth, her mother died of
puerperal fever and according to traditional Chinese beliefs, Yen Mah was called 'bad luck' by the rest of her family and because of this, was treated harshly throughout her childhood. When Yen Mah was one year old in 1938, Joseph Yen married a half-French, half-Chinese (Eurasian) 17-year-old girl named Jeanne Virginie Prosperi (1920-1990). Yen Mah started attending
kindergarten in 1941, aged 4. In her first week, she received a medal for topping her class. In 1942, Yen Mah's father (Joseph) and stepmother (Jeanne) moved from Tianjin to Shanghai to a house along
Avenue Joffre. On 2 July 1943, Yen Mah's grandmother, died of a
stroke.
Shanghai Six weeks after the death of Nai Nai (Yen Mah's grandmother), in August 1943, Yen Mah and her full siblings joined them at the house afterward. Two months after Yen Mah arrived in Shanghai, her grandfather, her Aunt Baba, her brother James, Franklin and Susan arrived (they delayed moving to observe the hundred days' mourning period for Nai Nai). When Susan arrived, she was too young and too close to Aunt Baba to recognise and approach her mother, Niang, who thus beat her loudly in frustration and anger. Yen Mah intervened, leading Niang to declare that she would never forgive her. In September 1948, Yen Mah's father and stepmother brought Yen Mah back to
Tianjin, where she reattended her first school.
Hong Kong The Yen family later moved to Hong Kong when Yen Mah was eleven, and she transferred to
Sacred Heart School and Orphanage (
Sacred Heart Canossian College). However, in July 1951, aged 13, Yen Mah developed
pneumonia. Her father visited her for the first time in many years. Yen Mah's grandfather, Ye Ye, died on 27 March 1952 due to complications with
diabetes. At the age of fourteen, as her autobiography states, Yen Mah won a playwriting competition for her work
Gone With the Locusts, and her father allowed her to study in England with James. Before the start of her career in the United States, she had a brief relationship with a man named Karl, and practised medicine in a Hong Kong hospital at the behest of her father, who refused to give her air fare when she expressed plans to move to America. She has stated in an interview with the
South China Morning Post that her father wanted her to become an
obstetrician in the belief that women wanted treatment only from a female doctor, Initially, Yen Mah pursued a career in medicine, including establishing a medical practice in California. However, after the success of her autobiography,
Falling Leaves, she transitioned to writing full-time. She recalls that during her childhood, reading was her only escape. The characters in her book and the stories told to her by her teachers and friends inspired her to write her own novels. According to her autobiography
Chinese Cinderella, her stepmother died in 1990. Her stepmother, Prosperi, refused to let Yen Mah and her biological siblings read her will until her own death. When the wills were read, Yen Mah had mysteriously been disinherited by Prosperi. Yen Mah is married to Robert Mah, a professor of
microbiology at
UCLA. They have a daughter, Ann, who is the author of five books, including the novel
The Lost Vintage. Yen Mah also has a son from a previous marriage. ==Literary career==