Doris Treitz was born in
Heydekrug,
Memelland (today:
Šilutė,
Lithuania). Due to the
flight and expulsion of Germans during and after WWII, her mother had to take her and her two elder sisters to the West. While the father wanted his daughters to aim for office jobs, the mother supported artistic aspirations, and the interest in foreign languages. At age 17, she left school in
Kiel to become a
fashion designer and actor in
Hamburg, studying at
Margot-Höpfner-Schauspielschule, working in several jobs to earn the money. At age 19, Doris Treitz took part in the
Miss Germany pageant, enjoying being in the spotlight while still living with her mother in a small cheap apartment in Hamburg's
Rothenburgsort. In order to pay the rent, they had to lease a room to a Russian, Nikolai Nefedov, who was 49 years old and en route to emigration into the US. Doris fell in love, and they married. After their boy Alexander ("Sascha") was born when she was 20, the couple got a divorce and Nefedov went to America alone. As she did not consider her legal name Doris Nefedov as helpful to a career, she chose Alexandra instead, after her son. Before a concert of singer
Salvatore Adamo, the crowd booed other new female talents away, until Alexandra won them over with her rather melancholic style.
Hans R. Beierlein, the well known German music manager of
Udo Jürgens, became her manager, friend and lover. Alexandra's first hit single,
Zigeunerjunge ("Gypsy boy"), was released in 1967, taken from her first successful debut longplay album
Premiere mit Alexandra ("Premiere with Alexandra"). She wrote the half of the tracks released on her second album
Alexandra, which had mixed receptions from music critics, according to producer Fred Weyrich because the songs "were ahead of their time". Regrettably her record label refused the release of a single to promote the LP. The album track
Mein Freund, der Baum ("My friend, the tree") only became a classic after her death. Alexandra was forced to record
Sehnsucht ("Yearning"), a song not written by herself, and vowed not to sing it again. Ironically it became her highest charting single reaching number 12 in the German charts. More single releases followed, including
Illusionen ("Illusions"),
Schwarze Balalaika ("Black
balalaika") - from her third album
Sehnsucht-Ein Portrait in Musik - and
Erstes Morgenrot ("First red sunrise"). The latter was released just three weeks before her death, reached number seventeen in the German Charts and appeared on the posthumous album
Ihre grossen Erfolge.
Illusionen would then be translated to English and rewritten by Don Black and Udo Jürgens, in the west it became known as "
If I Never Sing Another Song". In her international career, she performed songs in several other languages besides
German as well, including
French, English,
Russian and
Hebrew. In 1968, she performed in Rio de Janeiro, and spent a holiday there, meeting a new lover. In spring of 1969, she was awarded the
Golden Europa award for best newcomer. Soon, she had to take a time-out in Davos due to the stress of her career which soon resumed after a move to Munich. She met
Pierre Lafaire, and they intended to marry even though her sisters disagreed, suspecting fraud. They split up. Following phone calls, she slept in the same room with her son fearing that her son might get abducted, and wrote her last will in favour of her son and mother. ==Death==