She was younger daughter of Count Adam Józef Erazm
Hutten-Czapski (1819—1883), a
Chamberlain of the
Russian Empire, and his wife, Countess Maria Anna Katarzyna
Rzewuska (1827—1897). She had a brother, Count Adam
Hutten-Czapski (1849—1914), and a sister, Countess Henrietta Julia of
Plater-Zyberk (1847—1905). She was Catholic, and grew up in
Paris, France. She left with her mother and sister for
Stockholm, Sweden, in 1870. On 21 February 1873, in the Russian church in
Vevey, Switzerland, she married the Russian resident minister Aleksandr Aleksandrovich Kolemine (1844–1894), whom she had met during a trip to Switzerland. Their only son Yuri was born in 1874 in Switzerland. The couple had a stormy relationship, moved to
Darmstadt, Germany, and divorced in March 1884. Her second husband was
Louis IV, Grand Duke of Hesse, widowed since the death of his wife
Princess Alice in 1878. The
morganatic marriage of Louis and Alexandrine lasted only a few months from 30 April to 9 July 1884, because of objections by the grand duke's late wife's mother,
Queen Victoria. == Literary career ==