Following graduation from the seminary, she was hired as a lay minister at
Christ Church in
Alexandria, where she was in charge of pastoral ministry and allowed to preach a few times. She then began training and working with the Pastoral Counseling and Consulting Centers of Greater Washington and the Washington Institute for Pastoral Psychotherapy, returning to St. Alban's to continue pastoral ministry as a laywoman. Eventually, however, her rector encouraged her to enter the ordination process in the
Diocese of Virginia, and she was ordained as the first woman deacon in the South on January 29, 1972. When the House of Deputies voted against women's ordination in 1973, Cheek was motivated to work with other women and supporters to change the church's mind. On July 29, 1974, she and 10 other women were ordained at the
Church of the Advocate in
Philadelphia, and in August she was installed as assistant priest at the
Church of St. Stephen and the Incarnation in Washington. On November 10, 1974, Cheek became the first woman to celebrate the
Eucharist in an Episcopal church, in defiance of the diocesan bishop. She appeared on the cover in clerical dress. In 1996, Cheek joined the Greenfire Community and Retreat Center in
Tenants Harbor, Maine, where she served as a facilitator, teacher, and counselor, and later became active with St. Peter's Episcopal Church in
Rockland. In 2013, Cheek retired, moving to North Carolina. == Activism ==