Although of Course You End Up Becoming Yourself was positively received by critics. In
Time magazine,
Lev Grossman wrote, "The transcript of their brilliant conversations reads like a two-man
Tom Stoppard play or a four-handed duet scored for typewriter."
The Atlantic Monthly called the work, "far-reaching, insightful, very funny, profound, surprising, and awfully human"; at
National Public Radio, Michael Schaub described the book as "a startlingly sad yet deeply funny postscript to the career of one of the most interesting American writers of all time", calling it "crushingly poignant, both endearing and fascinating. At the end, it feels like you've listened to two good friends talk about life, about literature, about all of their mutual loves".
Newsweek noted, "For readers unfamiliar with the sometimes intimidating Wallace oeuvre, Lipsky has provided a conversational entry point into the writer's thought process. It's odd to think that a book about Wallace could serve both the newbies and the hard-cores, but here it is."
Publishers Weekly, in a starred review, described the book as "a rollicking dialog ... a candid and fascinating glimpse into a uniquely brilliant and very troubled writer".
The Wall Street Journal called it "lovely", and
Laura Miller in
Salon described it as "exhilarating". Maria Bustillos, in an essay for
The Awl, wrote, "I can't tell you how much fun this book is ... It's a road picture, a love story, a contest: two talented, brilliant young men with literary ambitions, and their struggle to understand one another." "Spurred by a rapidly developing feeling of friendship toward Lipsky", wrote critic
Richard Brody in
The New Yorker, "Wallace speaks of himself with a profuse, almost therapeutic candor, delivering a spoken autobiography ... In Lipsky's book, Wallace's voice is startlingly present, but so are his ideas, his immediate emotional responses to circumstances, and his own complex range of perspectives on the circumstances at hand ... His remarks to Lipsky are as quietly hilarious as they are ingenious." The book was a
New York Times bestseller,
New York Times Editors' Choice, and a National Public Radio Best Book of the Year. ==Honors==