On May 12, 1985, at the age of thirty, Eilberg became the first woman ordained in Conservative Judaism, and later that same year she became the first female member of the
Rabbinical Assembly. In 1986 she became the first woman appointed to serve on the Rabbinical Assembly's
Committee on Jewish Law and Standards. She started her career as a chaplain at Methodist Hospital in
Indianapolis. She served for one year as the assistant rabbi at
Har Zion Temple near Philadelphia. In 1989, she stepped down from that position at this synagogue, explaining in her resignation letter that her desire to spend more time with her young daughter was one of the primary motivations for her decision. On December 6, 2010, at Temple Reyim in
Newton, MA, Amy Eilberg met for the first time with Sally Priesand, the first Reform female rabbi, Sandy Eisenberg Sasso, the first Reconstructionist female rabbi, and
Sara Hurwitz, considered by some to be the first Orthodox female rabbi. They and approximately 30 other women rabbis lit Chanukah candles and then spoke about their experiences in an open forum. The 2022 art exhibit “Holy Sparks”, shown among other places at the
Dr. Bernard Heller Museum, featured art about twenty-four female rabbis who were firsts in some way; Pat Berger created the artwork about Eilberg that was in that exhibit. ==Personal life==