Anne married Jonas Z. Beiler in 1968 when they were respectively 19 and 21. He was raised
Old Order Amish. They had three daughters: LaWonna (born 1971), Angela Joy (1974–1975), and Joy LaVale (born 1976). Angela died at 19 months old, in a farming accident involving a
Bobcat tractor driven by one of Beiler's sisters on the family's property in Pennsylvania. Anne was overcome with
grief and sought grief counseling from a
pastor. She entered counseling in an emotionally vulnerable state, and the pastor started
sexually abusing her. This continued for six years and caused great suffering to Anne, who had intense struggles in her marriage with Jonas, which led to him deciding to study for a new career change to
marriage and family therapist. By 1982, Beiler had extricated herself from the abusive pastor, who went on to lose his license due to actions with multiple women that came to light. Anne Beiler agreed to become the
breadwinner, allowing Jonas to continue his counseling pursuit, because he had "stayed with me despite all that I’ve done." == Career ==