After graduation, in 1989, Nelson was an Assistant Professor of English at
New Mexico State University until 1995. She was promoted to Associate Professor in 1995 and held that position at New Mexico State University until the year 2000. From the year 2000 to 2006, she was an official Professor of English at New Mexico State University. She became a faculty member in 1994 at
Warren Wilson College in
Swannanoa, North Carolina, and still holds that position currently.
Quarterly West,
Redbook,
Ploughshares, ''
Harper's, and other magazines. They have been anthologized in Prize Stories: The O. Henry Awards and Best American Short Stories''. In 1999, Nelson & her husband guest-edited
American Short Fiction’s magazine together. Several of her novels have been
New York Times Book Review Notable Books:
In the Land of Men (1992),
Talking in Bed (1996), ''Nobody's Girl: A Novel
(1998), Living to Tell: A Novel
(2000), and Female Trouble'' (2002). Nelson wrote her novel,
Nobody’s Girl (1999), with the intention of transforming typical endings to genre novels like romance or mystery into something different. She incorporates both plots into her novel and defies stereotypes. The novel itself blends psychological insight with narrative momentum and was widely reviewed for its look at marriage, memory, and identity. In 2016, she taught a fiction workshop for the Aspen Summer Words Conference. == Writing style ==