Collins met
Mark Twain twice while he was in Canada.
James Abbott McNeill Whistler records meeting him twice, but clearly they had already met, as they recognized each other, with Whistler emphasizing how "correct" Collins was. Among his friends was
George William Spencer Lyttelton, who assisted Gladstone in several capacities from 1874 to 1892. From musical and theatrical circles his friends included
Arthur Sullivan,
John Hare,
Alfred Cellier,
George du Maurier and
Arthur Cecil Blunt. He was one of the pallbearers at Sullivan's funeral. His friends among the landed gentry included people whose estates offered outstanding golf: Mr. and Mrs. Asquith (Collins visited the golf course at St. Andrews); Lord Dartmouth, who had an "excellent private [golf] course at Patshull"; and Sir Edward Lawson, who hosted "week-end parties at the private links at Hall Barn." He was a friend of American short-story writer
Bret Harte from 1885 until Harte's death in 1902. According to Axel Nissen, Collins was Harte's "closest male companion during the last seventeen years of his life." Harte described Collins as "a very charming 'Warrington sort of fellow,'" apparently a reference to the character in
Thackeray's
Pendennis, who is a "woman-hater" and a "professed misogynist." What may have been Collins's interest in men may have extended to boys as well; Nissen offers as evidence a friendship with the then 11-year-old "painter-prodigy
Brian Hatton," photographs with Collins's "gardener boy," cut out and saved poems idealizing boys, Collins's "concern for the welfare of the District Messenger Boys" mentioned in his obituary in
The Times, and a "'bronze statuette of a nude boy' given to him by the artist"
William Goscombe John mentioned in his will. Collins was also
Justice of the peace in
Hampshire. He was also Comptroller for Princess Louise and Acting Equerry for John Campbell, Marquis of Lorne,
Governor General of Canada for a short time. He was a
Commander of the House Order of Hohenzollern. == References ==