While working at
Vogue, Barbara met and married Stanley Grafton Mortimer Jr. (1913–1999), an oil heir and member of a prominent New York family, in 1940 at St. Luke's Episcopal Church in East Hampton, New York. However, their marriage ended by 1946 after Mortimer, upon returning from his service in the Navy during the WWII, became an alcoholic and displayed severe mood swings. Through her daughter Amanda, her granddaughter is Flobelle 'Belle' Fairbanks Burden, a lawyer and New York Times Bestseller for her autobiographical book
Strangers which describes her childhood summers at Barbara's home. After her divorce from Mortimer, Barbara received a
settlement from a
trust fund. In 1946, she met
William "Pasha" Paley, who was estranged from his wife Dorothy Hart Hearst (1908–1998), the former wife of
John Randolph Hearst. William Paley, the chief executive of
Columbia Broadcast System or CBS, was wealthy, influential, and interested in the arts, and sought acceptance in New York's
café society. Barbara's social connections provided him a better chance of gaining entry into the exclusive circles that had previously eluded him. For Barbara, William Paley offered wealth, security, and worldly experiences. William's divorce was finalized July 24, 1947. He and Barbara married the following year. She had two children with Paley: • William C. "Bill" Paley (born 1948), who relaunched
La Palina, a cigar company established by grandfather Sam Paley in 1896. who made her "nondebut" in 1968, shortly after the
assassination of Robert F. Kennedy. According to several biographers, Barbara experienced loneliness and frustration as William Paley engaged in extramarital affairs. This emotional toll affected her and her family. Moreover, she faced public and media scrutiny, expected to maintain an unrealistic standard of beauty and social grace.
Final years and death Paley was diagnosed with
lung cancer in 1974. She died on July 6, 1978, a day after her 63rd birthday.
Legacy Barbara Paley remains an icon in the realms of fashion and style.
Truman Capote, a former friend, reputedly commented, "Babe Paley had only one fault. She was perfect. Otherwise, she was perfect." ==In popular culture==