The equivalent event for the bride-to-be is known as a
bachelorette party (or hen night). In Canada, some choose instead to hold a
stag and doe, or a
hag party or
hag do in the UK ("hag" being a combination of the words "hen" and "stag"), in which both the bride and groom attend. These events may often provide an opportunity to fundraise for the wedding itself.
Canada Canadian stag nights may extend into weekend affairs, sometimes involving travel to a
cottage or cities around Canada, and occasionally
Las Vegas as well. As in South Africa, the itinerary of a stag event is frequently kept hidden from the groom-to-be. The Australian terminology 'buck' rather than 'stag' is sometimes used. In the province of
Manitoba particularly, a "social" is often held rather than a
stag and doe, in which the public are invited to attend a large evening party at a rented pub or event venue. Tickets are sold at the door or online, there is usually a cash bar and silent auction, and a traditional buffet of regional snack foods known as a 'midnight lunch' will be served throughout the evening. ===
Francosphere=== In
France and in many French-speaking regions such as
Quebec, the bachelor party is called '
, which literally means "(the) burial of the life as a boy" or "burial/funeral of the life as a bachelor". For women it is ', translated as "burial/funeral of the life as a young girl/maiden". Bachelor parties were known as early as the 1830s, when in the Charpennes neighborhood of
Lyon groups of young men would dine at the restaurant of La Mere Brigousse on her famous dish of enormous dumplings
les tétons de Vénus (
Venus's breasts).
Germany In Germany, this event is called
Junggesellenabschied, which literally means "bachelor farewell". There is also a separate event that the couple celebrates together on the evening prior to their wedding, called
Polterabend. At the Polterabend, the guests break old porcelain and earthenware to bring luck to the couple's marriage. The tradition is said to go back to pre-Christian times; by noisily breaking ceramics, evil spirits – especially spirits of envy – are supposed to be driven out. In the last couple of years, Anglo-style bachelor parties have become more and more popular among bachelors. In parts of northern Germany that lack a
Carnival tradition, funny costuming has become a popular part of bachelor or bachelorette parties. Some parts of Germany have a related custom, in which a person who is not yet married by their 30th birthday, is made to dress up in an embarrassing fashion by their friends and to do silly tasks that most often include some kind of cleaning work.
Israel In
Israel, the bachelors party is called '''' (mesibat ravakim), literally meaning bachelor party. Such parties may feature heavy drinking and sometimes the presence of strippers, or else other recreational bonding activities undertaken together, such as
paintball or an overseas trip lasting a few days.
South Africa Bachelor parties in South Africa are expected to be a surprise, which is a unique regional variant. The party is planned without the groom's knowledge and is typically a couple days before the wedding. A bachelor party can include many family members and friends, and it isn't limited to the wedding party. It often includes a traditional
braai.
Sweden In Sweden bachelor parties are known as
Svensexa. They are documented since the 17th century; it is believed the tradition began with the
bachelorette party,
Möhippa, which was then followed by a male version. The parties were first called S
venafton, meaning ''Sven's Eve''. There were no activities at Swedish bachelor parties, other than food and alcohol, until the 1960s or 1970s. Since then they have developed to full-day or weekend events, traditionally starting with a kidnapping followed by activities that might involve humiliation of the bachelor. In the United Kingdom, it is now common for the party to last for more than one evening, hence the increasing prevalence of the phrase "stag weekend", or "stag do". A spin-off has been the growth of the stag weekend industry in the UK with various companies taking over the preparation of the event. In the UK, stag weekend trips are becoming mini-holidays with the groups taking part in various day-time activities as well as the expected night out or
pub crawl around the place in which they are staying. They may involve travelling to another location in the UK or going abroad, with
Kraków,
Dublin, and
Riga topping the list, followed by
Prague,
Amsterdam,
Bratislava, and
Budapest. Stag parties abroad have been known to involve visits to
brothels and
prostitutes, although this is in the minority of cases.
United States In the United States,
Las Vegas is both a popular bachelor party destination and location for the wedding itself. Bachelor parties in the US stereotypically entail the mass consumption of alcohol, hiring a
stripper, and general rowdiness to which the bride might not have a positive reaction; in fact, the defining feature of the bachelor party is that the fiancée is not present. Increasingly, bachelor parties have come to symbolize the last time that the groom is free from the influence of his new wife/partner.
Pop out cakes are sometimes associated. ==See also==