Popular poet
Ogden Nash took note of Hutton's public private life in the following light verse: Said
Aimee McPherson to Barbara Hutton, "How do you get a marriage to button?" "You'll have to ask some other person." Said Barbara Hutton to Aimee McPherson Barbara Hutton married: • 1933:
Alexis Mdivani, a self-styled
Georgian prince, divorced 1935 • 1935: Count Kurt Heinrich Eberhard Erdmann Georg von
Haugwitz-Hardenberg-Reventlow, divorced 1938 • 1942:
Cary Grant, divorced 1945 • 1947: Prince
Igor Troubetzkoy, divorced 1951 • 1953:
Porfirio Rubirosa, divorced 1954 • 1955: Baron
Gottfried Alexander Maximilian Walter Kurt von Cramm, divorced 1959 • 1964: Pierre Raymond Doan, a Vietnamese chemist, divorced 1966
Alexis Mdivani Her first husband, Alexis
Mdivani, used her great wealth to his advantage. As a social climber, member of an exiled
Georgian nobility with the rank of
aznauri (untitled nobility), he and his siblings were part of the "Marrying Mdivanis" from Georgia who claimed to be "princes" after they fled
Tbilisi in 1921 due to the
Soviet invasion of Georgia. Alexis was already married to Louise Van Alen, a friend Barbara met at
Bailey's Beach in Rhode Island and a member of the
Astor family, when he met Barbara in Biarritz, France. Their meeting was engineered by Alexis' manipulative sister (aka
Roussie) who was always propelling her family into wealthy marriages even if a divorce was required. Roussie and Alexis devised a plan that would enable Alexis to divorce Louise, seduce Barbara, and force her into marriage all at once when Alexis, Louise, Barbara, Roussie, and others were visiting
San Sebastian, Spain. Roussie timed Louise and other witnesses to visit a guest cottage while Alexis seduced Barbara. The group caught the couple, prompting Barbara to flee to Paris to avoid facing the scandal, but Roussie threatened Barbara with negative publicity if she did not marry her brother. Alexis and Barbara were married on June 22, 1933, in the Russian Orthodox Church in Paris, France. Barbara's father provided a $1 million dowry. After spending millions of Barbara's inheritance on a home, polo ponies, clothes and men's jewelry, Alexis and Barbara divorced in March 1935.
Kurt Haugwitz-Hardenberg-Reventlow Count Kurt von
Haugwitz-Hardenberg-Reventlow, with whom she had her only child, a son named
Lance, was her second husband. Reventlow dominated her through verbal and physical
abuse, which escalated to a savage beating that left her hospitalized and put him in jail. He also persuaded her to
give up her American citizenship, and to take his native
Danish citizenship for tax purposes, which she did in December 1937 in a New York federal court. At this point she lapsed into
drug abuse. Hutton then developed
anorexia, which would plague her for the rest of her life and would leave her unable to have further children. Lance Reventlow, the son, became a race car driver and builder of his own well-respected sports car, the Scarab, in the golden age of American sports car racing. Hutton's divorce from Reventlow gave her
custody of their son after a bitter court dispute. As her father had done, she left the raising of her child to a governess and private
boarding schools. In 1938, Hutton had a brief affair with
Howard Hughes in London at the
Savoy Hotel, where Hughes spent several afternoons with Hutton. Hughes, at the time, was engaged to
Katharine Hepburn and had come to London to meet with government officials and arrange permission to overfly Europe as part of a plan to circumnavigate the globe by air. Hutton later recalled that "he felt he must absolutely be in control of a situation." Hughes had met Hepburn on the set of one of Cary Grant's movies, while visiting with Grant. Howard Hughes and Cary Grant were close, long-time friends. As
World War II threatened in 1939, Hutton moved to California. She supported the commandeering of Winfield House by the British Forces and its use for various wartime services during the war. Hutton was active during the war, giving money to assist the
Free French Forces and donating her yacht to the Royal Navy. Using her high-profile image to sell
war bonds, she received positive publicity after being derided by the press as a result of her marriage scandals. In
Hollywood, she met
Cary Grant, one of the biggest movie stars of the day, and later married him on July 8, 1942. According to the
U.S. Embassy website, following their marriage, Grant was in London for the war effort and visited
Winfield House. Hearing criticism of Hutton by the U.S. broadcaster
Edward R. Murrow, of her abandonment of her London home, Grant suggested that Murrow visit the house before leveling unfounded criticism. Following the war, Hutton gifted Winfield House to the U.S. Government to be used as the official residence for the
US Ambassador.
Igor Troubetzkoy Hutton left California and moved to
Paris, France, before acquiring a palace in
Tangier. Hutton then began dating
Igor Troubetzkoy, an expatriate
Russian prince of very limited means but world renowned. In the spring of 1948 in
Zürich, Switzerland, she married him. That year, he was the driver of the first
Ferrari to ever compete in
Grand Prix motor racing when he raced in the
Monaco Grand Prix, and later won the
Targa Florio. He ultimately filed for
divorce. Hutton's subsequent attempted suicide made headlines around the world. Labeled by the press as the "Poor Little Rich Girl", her life made great copy and the media exploited her for consumption by a fascinated public.
Porfirio Rubirosa Her next marriage, lasting 53 days (December 30, 1953 – February 20, 1954), was to
Dominican diplomat Porfirio Rubirosa, a notorious international playboy who meanwhile continued his
affair with actress
Zsa Zsa Gabor. She was granted Dominican citizenship in 1953. In a scathing review of the marriage ceremony in the
Milwaukee Sentinel,
Phyllis Battelle coined the oft-quoted phrase: "The bride, for her fifth wedding, wore black and carried a scotch-and-soda." Hutton then spent time with Americans James Douglas and Philip Van Rensselaer. Her lavish spending continued; already the owner of several
mansions around the world, in 1959 she built a luxurious
Japanese-style palace on a 30-acre (120,000 m2) estate in
Cuernavaca,
Mexico.
Gottfried von Cramm Her next husband was an old friend, German tennis star
Baron Gottfried von Cramm. This marriage also ended in divorce. He later died in an automobile crash near
Cairo, Egypt, in 1976.
Raymond Doan In Tangier, Hutton met her seventh husband, Prince Pierre Raymond Doan Vinh
na Champassak. This marriage, too, was short-lived. Doan's title was bought for him by Hutton from the former royal family of the
Kingdom of Champasak (roughly located in modern
Laos).
Other relationships Hutton lived with
Frederick McEvoy, purchasing a chalet at a ski resort in
Franconia, New Hampshire, after her marriage to actor Cary Grant. The couple never married and remained friends until McEvoy's death in 1951. Hutton frequently appeared intoxicated in public and was notorious throughout her life for lavish spending. She was known to make gifts to total strangers. ==Art and jewelry==