Zerelda Cole married
Robert Sallee James on December 28, 1841, at the residence of her uncle, James Madison Lindsay, in
Stamping Ground, Kentucky, when she was 16 years old. A college friend of Robert's officiated as the best man, and tobacco was given in bond. The two moved to the vicinity of Centerville (later
Kearney, Missouri). Robert James was a commercial
hemp farmer, a slave owner, and a popular evangelical minister in the
Baptist Church. Zerelda bore him four children. •
Alexander Franklin James (b. January 10, 1843 – d. February 18, 1915) • Robert R. James (b. July 19, 1845 – d. August 21, 1845) •
Jesse Woodson James (b. September 5, 1847 – d. April 3, 1882) • Susan Lavenia James (b. November 25, 1849 – d. March 3, 1889) Shortly after the birth of his daughter, Susan, Robert James moved to California to preach to the gold miners, where he contracted either
pneumonia,
cholera or
typhoid and died on (according to tradition) August 18, 1850. His grave has never been officially identified, and no marker exists for him today. There is a much-disputed story that, in later years, Jesse went looking for his father's grave. ==Second marriage==