Bittersweet Me

In a contemporaneous (1996) article, music critic Jim DeRogatis considered the song as it related to the whole album: during a few days joining the band for interviews and to watch the production of the music video, he said the musicians wanted the album to be portrayed as "the record where R.E.M. proves that it's still got it." He added, When an advance copy of the English music magazine Mojo arrived the day before the "Bittersweet Me" video shoot began, its article suggested "that R.E.M.'s designated message circa the new album might not be delivered exactly as planned. The group was pictured on the cover in a typically enigmatic Anton Corbijn photo, but the cover line was 'R.E.M.: The Final Act?'" The band members received this angrily. Bass guitarist Mike Mills told DeRogatis, "It's just more journalists looking for an angle. Every bit of information they had in there was wrong. It's all anonymous sources and making things up." ==Music video==

Jim DeRogatis described joining other journalists (including Chris Heath of Rolling Stone and novelist Bobbie Ann Mason) during the shoot: "Michael Stipe is doing something that he vowed he'd never do: He's lip-synching as R.E.M. films the clip for 'Bittersweet Me'... It's late July in Los Angeles, and the favorite sons of Athens, Georgia, are gathered on a small platform in the middle of a cavernous soundstage on the lot of A&M Studios." DeRogatis explains, Mason herself wrote in an article for The New York Times, "The band performs before an imagined backdrop, a trailer for a bad European movie, like Godard's Weekend if it were made for TV. They're wearing pseudo-Italian garb. Bill Berry, the drummer, wears a fish-net-covered black jacket. Peter Buck, the lead guitarist, has on a black suit with a loud yellow shirt, and Mike Mills, the bassist, is in a purple velvet suit. The lead singer Michael Stipe is in stripes. His head is shaved. He moves in little electric-shock jerks. It's an angry ecstasy." Critic Stephan Wyatt, of the Albumism website, gave his appraisal in a review for the album's 25th anniversary: ==Critical reception==

Larry Flick from Billboard magazine described the song as "a strumming, easy-paced rocker that rings with the vintage R.E.M. sound—clever, mildly introspective verses that build to a full-throttle, pop-soaked chorus that permanently melts into the brain upon impact." He added, "It's a familiar formula that never seems to grow tired, mostly due to Michael Stipe's always believable, subtext-riddled vocals and tight instrumentation that sounds like it's unfolding live. Already connecting at rock radio, the single will gain top 40 approval within seconds." Jim DeRogatis called it "a melancholy ballad in the mold of Automatic for the People." Reviewer Michael Lawrence, giving the album a rating of 10/10, enthused, "'Bittersweet Me' marks an excellent return to their more upbeat, poppy songs from the days of yore. The beat is bouncy and the harmonies are well developed. Helping it land a home run is the catchy Michael Stipe delivers on a silver platter of his mumbles!" In a more detailed review of the album's tracks, Lawrence gave the song an A and said, "What I especially like about this song is the harmonies, which are so good that they remind me of their good old 1980s albums! The atmosphere is nice and thick... it's thick and moody and they don't rely on any gimmicks such as distortion or that zippy noise from 'Leave.' There's that cheapish guitar that comes in for the chorus, but it actually serves to change the mood of the song instead of littering it up like it was in Monster. So, cool!" ==Legacy==

In a 2011 retrospective, James Weiskittel, in his ranked list of 15 of R.E.M.'s studio albums for his website Generation Mixtape, placed New Adventures in Hi-Fi at #8 and considered "Bittersweet Me" a highlight. He called the song a "fuzz-drenched anthem" which "plays like a tighter/better version of 'Bang and Blame'" from the Monster album. Like many other critics, Weiskittel singled out the lines "I'd sooner chew my leg off than be trapped in this / How easy you think of all of this as bittersweet me," naming them his "Favorite Lyric and/or Moment" of the album. Trevor James Zaple argues that the music is, as the album title suggests, "a cleaner, bigger R.E.M. side that begins the lean towards adult contemporary sounds. Stipe leaves the mumble and mystique of his youth behind for good, finally projecting his voice," which "lends real weight" to "Bittersweet Me." The album enjoyed further positive attention during the 25th anniversary of its release in 2021. Critics, in several retrospective reviews, compared the record with others by R.E.M. and considered how "Bittersweet Me" fit thematically into the album's production, in light of the facts that the band members had faced personal hardships and that it was recorded during their tours for the previous album, Monster. Tim Peacock suggests that the theme of "eschewing the trappings of fame frequently recurred throughout New Adventures... with Stipe admitting, 'I'd rather chew my leg off than be trapped in this,' during the otherwise bracing 'Bittersweet Me." Kevin Korber of Spectrum Culture, praising the tonal diversity of the album, writes, "There are more crowd-pleasing songs, for sure: 'The Wake-Up Bomb' and 'So Fast, So Numb' hint at a version of Monster where the band focused on tight, punchy glam rock rather than sludgy guitar pedal workouts, and 'Bittersweet Me' is perhaps the perfect, archetypal R.E.M. song for this version of the band. That these songs all appear on the same album is one thing; that they coexist in the way that they do is something truly impressive." A reviewer for Sputnik Music, calling it a "great" album, writes that "'The Wake Up Bomb' and 'Bittersweet Me', while nothing especially crazy, are also enjoyable rockers and worth holding onto. 'Bittersweet Me' in particular boasts some classic R.E.M. jangle in its verses and some very satisfying guitar crunch in its choruses." Stephen Thomas Erlewine likewise thought the song sounded like early R.E.M., saying that "the chiming opening riff of 'Bittersweet Me' sounds like it was written in 1985." Ruck Cohlchez calls the song "a hooky single," and points to the lyric "I'd sooner chew my leg off than be trapped in this" as an example of the energy but also "the ambivalence of touring and the exhaustion, that show up throughout the album." Stephan Wyatt of Albumism considers the lyrics intriguing: ==Track listings==

All songs were written by Berry, Buck, Mills, and Stipe unless otherwise indicated. • 7-inch, cassette, and CD single • "Bittersweet Me" – 4:06 • "Undertow" (live)2 – 5:05 • 12-inch and CD maxi-single • "Bittersweet Me" – 4:06 • "Undertow" (live)1 – 5:05 • "Wichita Lineman" (Webb) (live)2  – 3:18 • "New Test Leper" (live acoustic)3 – 5:29 Notes 1 Recorded at the Omni Theater, Atlanta, Georgia; November 18, 1995. Taken from the live performance video, Road Movie. 2 Recorded at The Woodlands, Houston, Texas; September 15, 1995. 3 Recorded at Bad Animals Studio, Seattle, Washington; April 19, 1996. ==Personnel==

• Bill Berry – drums, tambourine • Peter Buck – guitar • Mike Mills – bass, organ, Mellotron • Michael Stipe – vocals • Scott McCaughey – piano ==Charts==

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