In 1954, he married Jean Hyett; the marriage would end in divorce. In 1962, he married for the second time, to Christine Sally Kemp; they later divorced. He was in a relationship with
On the Buses guest star Gaye Brown, until he broke up with her to date (and eventually marry) Kim Benwell. When Grant married for the third time in 1971, with his
On the Buses co-star Stephen Lewis as
Best Man, there were huge crowds outside the
register office. Consequently the couple had to abandon their hired
Rolls-Royce and walk to the reception. A double-decker bus had been provided for the guests, but they had to walk as well.
Mental illness In the 1980s, he suffered from
depression,
bipolar disorder and other
mental health problems, because of a lack of work and his considerable debts. This eventually led to a suicide attempt. In 1987, he disappeared from his home in
Leicestershire for five days; it later emerged that he had taken the
ferry to
Dublin intending to kill himself. "I was in a horrible state", Grant said during an interview with
Pamela Armstrong after the event, "I just had to get out of the house. I left the house and thumbed a lift to
Melton Mowbray, and then got a train to
Birmingham New Street where I sat sobbing in a station
buffet. Everyone ignored me. Normally I get asked in the street something like 'When you back on telly then?', but not this time". Grant started to write his first note to his wife Kim, intending her to receive it after he had killed himself. "Tears streamed down my face as I wrote", he recalled. After hours of pounding the streets of
Birmingham, Grant instead caught the ferry to Dublin, "It was a horrible night on that boat", he continued. "I'd been to Dublin before and it seemed such a nice place. I wanted to end it all, either by jumping in the
River Liffey or ironically under a bus." Grant stayed at a guesthouse in Dublin to think things over. He called Kim, but there was no answer; she was at the time filming an appeal to find him. On the strength of the appeal, Grant eventually returned to England, where his absence had caused a small stir, which allowed him to gain a few more acting jobs. A further long gap in employment led to another suicide attempt in 1995, this time by
carbon monoxide poisoning. Grant was discovered just in time, slumped over the steering wheel of his car, which was filled with exhaust fumes, and admitted to hospital for treatment. He and Kim took a holiday to
Goa in India to recover and on their return, it seemed things were finally going right again. They moved to a small cottage in Church End, Twyning, about a mile south of
Twyning, near
Tewkesbury in
Gloucestershire with the ambition of making a fresh start. Grant lived very reclusively and neighbours would only see him when he was trimming his hedge. ==Death==