Fleming lost her title when she married Rory David Fleming, an English banker, at
Valdemar's Castle on 13 October 2001. They have two children together, a son, Alexander William Fleming (born 7 April 2004), and a daughter, Josephine Margaretha Victoria Fleming (born 20 December 2006). Josephine's godmother is
Mary Donaldson, the Australian-born
Queen Consort of Denmark. The couple separated in December 2007 and were divorced in early 2008. Fleming started dating the Danish footballer
Nicklas Bendtner in September 2009, after the two had met when she was filmed renovating her castle on a reality television series. They later got engaged. In December 2010, she gave birth to their son, Nicholas Christian Juel Bendtner, at London's
Portland Hospital. The couple announced the end of their engagement and separated in February 2011. Fleming briefly dated the American banker Christian Hostetter in 2015. She "fell in love" with the French entrepreneur Hervé Larren in 2017, after the two met in Los Angeles while she was promoting her English cookbook. Larren was by her side for her grandmother's funeral at Valdemar's Castle on 22 August 2016. Fleming lived in
Chelsea, London. In June 2019, she moved back home to
Denmark. Fleming is passionate about cooking. Fleming has been in a relationship with the Danish
plastic surgeon Frederik Kølle since September 2023. == Filmography ==