Henry Lee was the third son of Capt. Henry Lee I (1691–1747) of "Lee Hall", Westmoreland County, and his wife, Mary Bland (1704–1764). Bland was the daughter of Hon.
Richard Bland (1665–1720) and his second wife, Elizabeth Randolph (1685–1719) (the daughter of
William Randolph). Her father Charles Grymes lived at his "
Morattico" plantation, in
Richmond County, Virginia. His mother in law Frances Jenings was also of distinguished lineage, daughter of
Edmund Jenings and wife Frances Corbin. Charles Grymes held local public offices including as sheriff of Richmond County, and held the highest office obtainable to a Virginia planter, as a member of the Governor's Council (1724-1725). Lucy survived a poisoning attempt by two local slaves in 1767 (one living at Leesylvania and the other working at the Neabsco foundry owned by Col. John Tayloe, father-in-law to his cousin Francis Lee). Henry reportedly wrote to his cousin Squire Lee complaining about the attempts of the irnworks' foreman to get the ringleader pardoned.
Children All of Henry Lee II and Lucy Grymes Lee's children were born at Leesylvania: • Maj. Gen.
Henry Lee III "Light Horse Harry" (1756–1818),
Governor of Virginia. Lee III married: • Matilda Lee (1766–1790), daughter of Hon. Philip Ludwell Lee, Sr., Esq. (1727–1775) and Elizabeth Steptoe (1743–1789), who married secondly,
Philip Richard Fendall I, Esq. (1734–1805). • Anne Hill Carter (1773–1829), daughter of Hon. Charles Carter, Sr. (1737–1802) of "Shirley", and his second wife, Anne Butler Moore (1756). Their son was Confederate General Robert E. Lee. • Hon.
Charles Lee (1758–1815), U.S. Attorney General. Charles married: • Anne Lee (1770–1804), daughter of
Richard Henry Lee (1732–1794) and his second wife, Anne (Gaskins) Pinckard. • Margaret Christian (Scott) Peyton (1783–1843), widow of Yelverton Peyton (1771–1802). Margaret was the daughter of Rev. John Scott (1747–1785) and Elizabeth Gordon . •
Richard Bland Lee I (1761–1827) of "
Sully plantation", who married Elizabeth "Eliza" Collins (1768–1858), daughter of Stephen Collins and Mary Parish. • Mary "Mollie" Lee (1764–1827), who married
Philip Richard Fendall I, Esq. (1734–1805), his third wife. Philip was the son of Benjamin Fendall, Esq. (1708–1764) and his first wife, Eleanor Lee (1710–1759). • Theodorick Lee (1766–1849) of "Eckington", who married Catherine Hite (1766–1849). •
Edmund Jennings Lee I (1772–1843), who married Sally Lee (1775–1837), daughter of
Richard Henry Lee (1732–1794) and Anne (Gaskins) Pinckard. • Lucy Lee (1774), who never married. • Anne Lee (1776–1857), who married William Byrd Page, Sr. (1768–1812), son of
Mann Page (1742–1787) and Mary Mason Selden (1754–1787). ==Death and legacy==