In 1879, Charlotte married her first husband,
James Coleman Drayton, a cousin of the Draytons of
Drayton Hall in South Carolina. Together, they were the parents of: • Caroline Astor Drayton (1880–1965), who in 1910 married
William Phillips, the
U.S. Ambassador to Italy. • Henry Coleman Drayton (1883–1942), who married Mary Constance Knower (1884–1920). After their divorce, she became the Countess Knower De Suzannet. • William Astor Drayton (1888–1973), who married Alberta Averill (1888–1961), daughter of Albert William Averill. Alberta was the widow of
William Phelps Eno. • Alida Livingston Drayton (1890–1898) The Drayton marriage was the subject of widespread public speculation and media scrutiny during a period when divorce carried significant social stigma. In 1890, it was first reported that Drayton was considering divorce. Soon after, he and Charlotte traveled to Europe in an effort to reconcile, accompanied shortly afterward by Major Hallet Alsop Borrowe, who was rumored to be romantically linked to Charlotte. In 1892, Drayton challenged Borrowe to a duel, which was ultimately prevented by the intervention of friends. Charlotte's mother, Caroline Astor, also attempted to mediate the couple's differences, including bringing them to London. Drayton eventually returned to New York and filed for divorce on statutory grounds. Before the case was heard, Charlotte filed a counter-suit and was ultimately granted the divorce in 1896. During 1892, amid the scandal, Charlotte's father disinherited her while leaving $850,000 in trust for her children upon his death that year. To compensate for this, brother John later gave her $1 million. ==Death==