Toynbee was born in
Muswell Hill, Buckinghamshire in 1841. Her parents were Charlotte Maria (born Hodgskins) and William Atwood. Her father was a linguist working abroad so consequentially she spent a lot of time out of the country gaining her education in French schools until her family returned to the UK. Her Anglican and Liberal family then lived in Wimbledon and she went to school in London. She spoke slowly and kindly, but she was said to have a commanding voice. When she was 32 she married a man who was eleven years younger than her who she had known for six years. She had been initially attracted to
Arnold Toynbee by his ideas. In 1884, she and her mother moved into a new house and she and
Alfred Milner edited her husband's
Lectures on the Industrial Revolution in England. She also served on the committee aiming to create a
settlement in Oxford, the result,
Toynbee Hall, was named for her husband. Toynbee served as
Poor Law Guardian for thirty years as part of a system which she wanted replaced. She said that it was impossible to judge the level of help that the poor needed and it was demeaning for them to ask for small sums. She wanted to see the system replaced with pensions and other improvements. Toynbee looked after the management, and contributed to, the finances of Lady Margaret Hall (LMH) for forty years. LMH supplied a home for women students as they studied. However she did not approve of women being given the vote and in 1895 she was one of the LMH council members who successfully opposed the idea that women should be awarded BA degrees at Oxford. ==Death and legacy==