Box office Choose Me earned $2,490,233 at the United States
box office.
Janet Maslin, reviewing the film in
The New York Times, wrote: "Fortunately, Mr. Rudolph has paid perhaps even more attention to the film's minor touches than he has to its central action. Abundant, well-chosen paintings and posters comment on the characters, and the supporting cast includes the painter
Ed Ruscha in a small but conspicuous role."
Vincent Canby, reviewing the film, three months later, in
The New York Times, wrote: "The cast...couldn't be better...There's a wonderful feeling of ensemble playing... plus Teddy Pendergrass, who is never seen but whose blues songs on the soundtrack underscore the screen action as if they were ironic subtitles, which are never to be taken too seriously, but simply enjoyed for the sly, knowing fun of them...Rudolph's favorite movie set is Los Angeles... as much a fairy-tale town as the Emerald City. It's this quality that makes
Choose Me an adult fable of such expressive charm. Ted Mahar of
The Oregonian described the film as a "paradoxical, complex comedy," praising the nuanced characters and Rudolph's screenplay. Alan G. Artner of the
Chicago Tribune also commended the film's portrayal of its characters, writing: "Rudolph puts his characters under a microscope where they keep wriggling until all of them have bumped. How each and every combination occurs is, at times, quite ingenious." In Cinefile.info, Ben Sachs writes that
Choose Me shows the influence of
Robert Altman, in juggling multiple characters, with the film evoking "an intoxicating, amorous mood, the bold neon colors and balletic camera movements evoking a world where love is always in the air. Alternately funny, seductive, and unnerving,
Choose Me channels the chaotic rush of emotions that comes with falling in love as few other movies do."
Filmink called it "Alan Rudolph’s one commercially successful movie and the one everyone seems to like... all clicks." ==Further reading==