Dán met her first husband, Ferenc Engel, at one of her parents' parties. Throughout her marriage to Rapoch, Dán maintained contact with John von Neumann. In 1938, after von Neumann went through a divorce himself, Dán divorced Rapoch and married von Neumann. On August 30, 1939, with the start of World War II looming, Dán traveled back to Budapest by boat to convince her parents and in-laws to leave the country. He died in 1957. In 1958, a year after von Neumann's death, Dán married her fourth husband, oceanographer and physicist
Carl Eckart, and moved to
La Jolla, California. Over the course of her four marriages, Dán never had children of her own. Her stepdaughter,
Marina von Neumann Whitman (March 6 1935 – May 20 2025), was two years old when Dán and von Neumann married, and grew up to become a prominent economist, automobile executive, and professor of business administration and public policy. In 1963, Dán drove from her La Jolla home to the beach, where she walked into the surf and drowned. The San Diego coroner's office listed her death as a suicide. She was 52 years old. ==Further reading==