In October 2011, Henderson created a
Tumblr called "Feminist Ryan Gosling" after seeing the popular "hey girl" meme that featured actor
Ryan Gosling. Each post included a picture of the actor with the greeting "hey girl" at the top and a block of text related to feminist theory or scholarship that Henderson was studying in her master's degree program. The day after she published the debut post, the blog went viral after receiving coverage first from
Jezebel, and later from outlets such as
GQ,
Mother Jones,
IndieWire,
Time, and
Newsweek. She published a book version of the blog in August 2012 and retired the project in April 2013. In 2014 she worked as the arts and culture editor for
The Stranger and later worked as a culture editor for
Fusion. Henderson was contacted by a television agent who read her
Vulture recaps and encouraged her to consider television writing. She released her memoir
The Ugly Cry on June 8, 2021, under
Penguin/
Viking. The book centers much of her upbringing by her non-traditional grandmother, as well as other life experiences up to the age of 18. == Personal life ==