Lee was born and raised in
Rye,
New York. His parents, Annette (Franks), a teacher, and Marvin Lee, an electrical engineer, were children of
Jewish immigrants from
England and
Lithuania. He graduated from
Harvard University in 1952 and then joined the
U.S. Army for 22 months. After being discharged from the army, he obtained a master's degree from the
University of Connecticut. In 1955 Lee entered the Ph.D. program at
Yale University where he worked under
Henry A. Fairbank in the low-temperature physics group, doing experimental research on liquid 3He. After graduating from Yale in 1959, Lee took a job at
Cornell University, where he was responsible for setting up the new
Laboratory of Atomic and Solid State Physics. Shortly after arriving at Cornell he met his future wife, Dana, then a PhD student in another department; the couple went on to have two sons. Lee moved his laboratory from Cornell to
Texas A&M University on November 16, 2009. ==Work==