Adams was born in
Braintree, Massachusetts on July 14, 1765. She was the earliest born of any confirmed biological child to the President of the United States, and the first to be a part of the
First Family in life. At the age of 18, she met and fell in love with
Royall Tyler, who addressed her as "Amelia", a name she used with suitors. Her father thought she was too young to be
courted, but he eventually accepted it. At one point the two were even engaged to be married. But John Adams, then the U.S. minister to the
Kingdom of Great Britain, eagerly called for his wife and daughter to join him in
London. For a time, Adams maintained a long-distance relationship with Tyler, but eventually broke off the engagement, leaving Tyler depressed. Adams's observations of European life and customs, and of many of the distinguished statesmen of the day, were later published. Their courtship was thought to be too short by Adams's parents, and historians have not considered it to be a good marriage. While Colonel Smith was kind to his family, he never settled, continually seeking a better lot in life. He spent more money than he earned and lost everything to real estate speculation in the early 1800s. This left them on a small farm along the
Chenango River in central New York. Their children were: == Diagnosis of breast cancer ==