Lilly was born in
South Pasadena, California and she was schooled in Santa Monica. Lilly was a socialite and wrote several books about people of great wealth including
Glamor Girl (1977; with co-author Robin Moore) and
Those Fabulous Greeks: Onassis, Niarchos and Livanos (1970). The similarity of the title of Lilly's first book,
How to Meet a Millionaire, to that of the 1953 musical film
How to Marry a Millionaire, has contributed to a misconception (unfortunately included in several of her obituaries) that the movie was an adaptation of the book; in fact, however, the film's credited sources were two plays (one by
Zoe Akins, the other by Dale Eunson and Katherine Albert). Lilly published an updated version of the book in 1984 as
How to Meet a Billionaire, commenting that "A million dollars isn't much money these days. You can't even get a decent house for that." The
New York Post columnist
Cindy Adams said that Lilly was "never fond of poverty", and Lilly herself said that the people she wrote about as a gossip columnist were sometimes "shallow" but were "pleasant and they smell good and they eat well and drink good wines, and that's all right." Lilly wrote for several publications, including as a contributor to
Avenue,
Cosmopolitan, ''
Ladies' Home Journal, McCall's magazines, as beauty editor of Town and Country. On television Lilly was a commentator on WPIX and a guest on panel shows and The Merv Griffin Show''. ==Bibliography==