General While non-penetrative sex (or outercourse) is usually defined as excluding sexual penetration, The words
penetration and
penetrative may be restricted to penile-vaginal penetration, and, in this way, the definition of outercourse additionally includes penetrative anal sex, with the term
outercourse used to contrast the term
sexual intercourse as vaginal sex. Definitions restricting the terms
non-penetrative sex and
outercourse to whether penile penetration has occurred, or to non-penetrative sexual acts that do not involve exchanges of potentially infectious body fluids,
Frottage Frottage is the general term for the act of rubbing any part of the body, including the buttocks, the breasts, abdomen, thighs, feet, hands, legs and sexual organs against the sexual organ of another person; this is done whether naked or clothed and is more commonly known as
dry humping or
dry sex. When frottage includes
genital-genital rubbing, it is sometimes called
genito-genital or
GG rubbing. • The term
frottage derives from the
French verb
frotter (i.e., to rub). Three terms derive from
frotter. These include frottage, the sexual act involving rubbing; frot, the sexual act that refers exclusively to male-male genital rubbing without penetration (but may also be referred to as
frottage); and
frotteurism, a
paraphilia involving obsession with frottage or performing frottage non-consensually (e.g., pressing one's genitals against a stranger on a crowded subway); this was once called "frottage", but the usage is no longer acceptable.
Manual sex depicting
fingering Manual sex (sometimes called
manual intercourse) involves the use of one's hands or fingers to stimulate the genitals of another person. Types of manual sex include the
handjob (the manual stimulation of the
penis or
scrotum) and
fingering (the manual stimulation of the
vagina,
clitoris, or other parts of the
vulva). Manually stimulating another person's
anus (
anal fingering) is also included. Manual sex may be used as foreplay This may be done in situations where the participants do not feel ready, physically able, socially at liberty, or willing to engage in any penetrative sex act, or a particular penetrative sex act, but still wish to engage in a mutual sexual activity. Mutual masturbation may be used as an alternative to penile-vaginal penetration, to preserve virginity or to prevent
pregnancy. It includes a range of sensations that include orgasms that are full-bodied, and orgasms that last from a few minutes to many hours.
Exclusively non-penetrative , a form of non-penetrative sex or
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Hyacinthus) Non-penetrative sex may sometimes be divided into acts that are exclusively non-penetrative and those that are not. Exclusively non-penetrative sexual acts include: •
Bagpiping: when the penis is inserted in the other person's armpit. •
Bundling: a courtship tradition in some Christian communities that was opposed by the religious right and has largely died out. The two young people were each in a sack tied up at the neck, and put in a bed together for the night. •
Erotic massage: rubbing of the body to create pleasure and relaxation. This can be done between two or more people of any gender and sexual orientation. It can involve the use of oils (heated or otherwise) or just the individual's hands. It is also known as
sensual massage. •
Footjob: using the feet to stimulate a partner's genitals. The sexual rubbing may involve stroking to orgasm. For some individuals the practice may be an aspect of a
foot fetish. •
Frot: act of genital-genital rubbing between males (especially penis-to-penis contact). •
Handjob: the manual sexual stimulation of another person's penis. •
Intercrural sex: when the penis is stimulated by placing it between another individual's thighs.
Lubrication may be used to allow the penis to move more freely between the thighs. • Intergluteal sex: stimulation of the penis using the buttocks. It differs from anal sex because no penetration of the anus occurs. The penis is stimulated by moving between the buttocks. •
Kissing: the touching of one person's lips against another person's can be regarded as a sexual act, especially deep kissing (
French kissing) where one person inserts their tongue into the partner's mouth. Kissing may also be done on other parts of the body and is commonly a part of foreplay. •
Mammary intercourse: the stimulation of the penis by placing the penis between the breasts and moving the penis up and down to simulate penetration and to create pleasure. •
Nipple stimulation: when one partner caresses (either manually or orally) the nipples of their partner. Any individual can participate in this act and it can be done in pairs or groups. This can lead to orgasm for the receiving partner. •
Tribadism: a form of
lesbian sex where women rub genitalia against each other (either rubbing vulvas together or rubbing one's vulva against other parts of another individual's body).
Non-exclusively non-penetrative • Fingering: using fingers to stimulate a partner's vagina, vulva (particularly the clitoris), or anus. • Oral sex: stimulation of the genitals using the mouth and throat;
fellatio is oral stimulation of the penis,
cunnilingus is oral stimulation of the vulva, and
anilingus is oral stimulation of the anus. •
Vibrator stimulation: massage of genitals and
erogenous zones using a vibrator. •
BDSM: various BDSM activities do not involve penetration. ==Health risks==