in 2012 Elinor Poole was born around 1570, probably at
Pauntley, Gloucestershire. Her parents were
Henry Poole—later Sir Henry,
Justice of the Peace,
Member of Parliament and the
High Sheriff of Gloucestershire—and Anne, '''' Wroughton, of
Broad Hinton, Wiltshire. Elinor had two younger sisters, Frances and Dorothy, and three brothers, Giles, Devereux and Henry. Devereux, who was probably a year or so older than Elinor, was killed when he was 19, fighting alongside his father in France while under the command of
Robert Devereux, 2nd Earl of Essex. The Poole family was a large landowner in the area, with farmland from
Herefordshire through the
Cotswolds, into
Berkshire and down to Wiltshire. The family was well connected within the
upper classes, and Elinor's living relatives included her cousins, the brothers
Sir Carew and
Sir Walter Raleigh. . In early 1589 Elinor Poole married Richard Fettiplace, of the
Fettiplace family, in Berkshire. The marriage introduced Elinor to an ancient
Norman family that owned large areas of heavily
mortgaged land in the
Vale of White Horse. She came to the marriage with a
dowry of £400, a
bequest of her grandfather, Sir Giles Poole. According to
Hilary Spurling, Elinor's biographer, the dowry may have come with conditions that her new in-laws put their finances in order by selling some of the Fettiplace land. The couple had five children—three daughters and two sons—and lived in the
manor house at
Appleton, Oxfordshire, described as "relatively modest" by Spurling. Two of their daughters died as infants and a third aged sixteen. It is possible, although uncertain, the couple had a fourth daughter. Their son Henry was born around 1602, but nothing more is known about him. Their eldest child, John, was born in 1590. In 1606 he married his cousin Margaret, and the couple lived at Appleton; they were still resident there the following year when they had a son, Edmund. On a normal day the manor would provide for between twenty and thirty people, which comprised both staff and the family, but during the seasonal feasts this number could double or triple, with fifty guests needing to be fed twice a day during the
Twelve Days of Christmas. Fettiplace had a copy of the
anatomist Charles Estienne's book
Countrey Farme, which had been given to her by the nobleman
Sir Henry Danvers; the book provided guidance on garden planning, and advice on growing herbs and vegetables. She spent time in the summer and autumn months preserving food for the winter, with the help of the estate's staff. Fettiplace's husband died in 1615 and it appears she left Appleton Manor, giving advice to her daughter-in-law, Margaret, on how best to run it. When Fettiplace's father died in 1616, he left £500 in his will for her. He was buried in
St Kenelm's Church, Sapperton. His ornate tomb shows his son kneeling next to him, and his three daughters, including Fettiplace, kneeling at the front. It is her only known likeness. Fettiplace returned to within her own family's orbit at Sapperton, and married a man from Gloucester, Edward Rogers, who died in 1623. He was also buried at Sapperton church. Details of her death are unclear, but it was in or after 1647. There is no record of Fettiplace's death, and the last record of her is when she gave her receipt book to her niece; she dated the dedication 1647.
Personality According to Spurling, the little that is known about Fettiplace's character suggests she was forceful, with a "firm view of her own importance". After her husband died, she continued to use the title of "Ladyship", although not entitled to; she continued the practice even after she married a
commoner, Edward Rogers, and he had died. His memorial stone in St Kenelm's Church outlines his status from the view of her importance and ancestry. Spurling concludes Fettiplace was an "efficient and practised manager" in the way she ran her household and, when her husband was absent, the family estate. She was interested in modern cookery and had a "cautious and considerate approach" to dispensing the medicines she prepared. ==
Receipt Book==