Early marriage Stewart met
David King Udall in 1873 when she joined her father on a visit to the Udall family. David Udall wrote of the encounter that "the fair, slender girl with clear blue eyes took my heart away with her". After courting for two years, Stewart and Udall married in the Salt Lake City
Endowment House on February 1, 1875. Only six weeks into their marriage, the LDS Church assigned David Udall to proselytize as a
missionary in England, and Ella Udall returned to Kanab, where she worked as a telegraphist again and as a bookkeeper for a church-endorsed Co-op store. After twenty-seven months away as a missionary, David returned to Utah, reuniting with Ella Udall. They lived briefly in Nephi and then Kanab, and Udall gave birth to their first child, a daughter they named Pearl (b. 1880). David also was superintendent of a Co-op store. Eliza Udall was appointed as secretary of the Relief Society in the St. Johns Ward. In 1881, David Udall hired
Ida Frances Hunt, a Latter-day Saint then living in
Snowflake, Arizona, to work for the St. Johns Co-op as a clerk, and she moved there in the fall, where she boarded with Ella and David Udall. That winter, David Udall asked Hunt if she would be interested in marrying him as a plural wife. David and Ella Udall had talked about plural marriage before. Moved by her experience with her mother's co-wife, Ella Udall expressed openness to the practice in the abstract, but she was more uncomfortable with the prospect of polygamy in her own marriage. Sensitive to Udall's feelings, Hunt left St. Johns to temporarily live with her family in Snowflake, and from there she wrote to Udall to ask for her permission to marry her husband. Udall did not respond immediately. In March 1882, she sent a letter giving her consent, although unenthusiastically, to Hunt plurally marrying David.
Plural marriage Udall and her daughter Pearl accompanied David and Hunt to St. George, Utah. In the Latter-day Saint temple there, in Ella Udall's presence, Ida Hunt married David Udall as his plural wife. Ella and Ida Udall spent the wedding night together, and on their return journey to St. Johns they reconciled somewhat by having long, private conversations and reading novels out loud with one another. After a stay in Snowflake over the summer, Ida moved in with Ella and David on August 25, 1882. Only two months before their plural marriage, Congress had passed the
Edmunds Anti-Polygamy Act, outlawing polygamy and "unlawful cohabitation" and strengthening federal authority to prosecute cases, and in mid-1884, federal authorities indicted David Udall on a polygamy charge. Because calling plural wives to testify to their husbands' polygamous marriages was a known strategy of prosecutors, Ida Udall went into hiding to avoid being subpoenaed, and she lived away from Ella Udall and David Udall for several years. During this time, David and Ida only communicated through Ella Udall, who passed along David's letters to Ida under the false pretense of Ida being David's sister. Ella Udall and Ida next saw each other in person in the summer of 1888. Ida Udall and her children had moved onto a farm in
Round Valley, Arizona that David and his brothers had purchased. However, Ella Udall was still ambivalent about plural marriage. When the family struggled financially, David had Ida and her children move to Snowflake to temporarily live with Ida's family. For the next two years, Ida, Ella, and their respective children moved frequently between Snowflake, Round Valley, and St. Johns without significantly overlapping. The family did live together in one household for the winter of 1891–1892.
Post-Manifesto LDS Church president
Wilford Woodruff issued a statement in 1890 publicly withdrawing the church's official sanction of polygamy and advising Latter-day Saints to obey federal anti-polygamy laws. By the spring of 1892, David Udall concluded that complying with this instruction required not cohabitating with Ida Udall, and she moved to
Eagar, Arizona. However, in July, higher church leadership instructed the Udalls to remain a family. David restored contact with Ida, and she moved back to Round Valley to be with him and Ella in the spring of 1893, but for most of the rest of their lives, Ida Udall lived separately from Ella and David. For many years, Ella, David, and Ida Udall lived a hard life in which the family's economic resources were thin. and Udall later spent some time as manager of the Apache Hotel in
Holbrook, Arizona. Since 1887, Udall had also served as president of the
stake-level
Relief Society in the St. Johns Stake. Apostles
John W. Taylor and
Matthias F. Cowley spoke privately with David Udall in 1903 to ask him to marry a widow named Mary Ann Linton Morgan as a third wife. Ella Udall did not like this idea, but David eventually went ahead with it and quietly married Morgan. She and her children went to live with Ida Udall in Hunt. After a series of strokes culminating in 1908 left Ida Udall paralyzed on her left side, Ella Udall's feelings toward Ida softened. Ida Udall's biographer reports that "Ever after, Ella was loving and gracious to Ida and her children" until Ida died in 1915. == Later life ==