During the following "dark days of the Irish Rebellion," Elizabeth stayed with her father-in-law,
Lord Cork, who refers to her often, with special fondness, in his letters. Eventually he sent her away to England, for safety's sake. "God knows," he writes, "with what grief of soul I part with her." Her father fought in the
English Civil War, as a
Royalist. Lady Kinalmeaky became a
Roman Catholic and shared for some years Queen
Henrietta Maria's
exile in France along with her mother, the
Countess of Denbigh, who also attended the Queen. While in France she had charge of Margaret Blagge, daughter of Colonel
Thomas Blagge and eventually wife of
Sidney Godolphin and mother of
Francis Godolphin.
John Evelyn, author of the book
The Life of Mrs Godolphin, depicts Lady Guilford as a harsh, overly religious governess. After the
Restoration, she was made
Countess of Guildford for life by
Charles II on 14 July 1660. She also held the office of
Groom of the Stole and Lady of the Bedchamber to
Henrietta Maria, then the Queen-Mother. She died without issue c. 3 September 1667 at
Colombes, France. Her will (dated 2 September 1667) was probated on 20 November 1667. Upon her death, the
earldom of Guildford became extinct. ==Styles==