Elizabeth Freke was born in 1641 in
Hannington, Wiltshire into the wealthy
Royalist household of Ralph Freke and Cicely Culpeper. Her mother, one of the eight daughters of Sir
Thomas Colepeper of
Hollingbourne, died when she was just seven years old, leaving her the eldest woman in the house of her four sisters (including
Frances, later Lady Norton). She was brought up mainly by an aunt in
Kent. Her father was a lawyer in London, England who had an estate in both Kent and Wiltshire in later years. The estate also belonged to Elizabeth's maternal aunt. In 1672, Freke married at the age of 30 her second cousin,
Percy Freke of Rathbury Castle,
County Cork, Ireland, after seven years of
courtship. The wedding took place "withoutt my deer Fathers Consentt or knowledg. In A most dreadfull Raynie day." On 2 June 1675 she gave birth to their only son
Ralph Freke. At one point later in the marriage, Percy returned to Ireland and left Elizabeth with her son and scarcely any money. She then left to visit her sister until 1685, and her son shortly after fell ill with smallpox, but recovered. In 1704, Percy came to live with Elizabeth in
Norfolk, but due to illness, he died in her arms two years later. ==Reparation of the Church of St. Cecilia and excommunication==