Elizabeth stayed with her parents, especially her mother, for the first few years of her life. She was at
Caernarfon Castle in 1284 when her younger brother, Edward, was born. A year later Elizabeth and her family visited the south of England, firstly going to
Thomas à Beckett's shrine at
Canterbury Cathedral, then staying at
Leeds Castle before finally going to
Amesbury, where her paternal grandmother,
Eleanor of Provence, was living. In 1286, Elizabeth and Edward were left with their grandmother, whilst their parents left for the continent to try and negotiate a peace deal between France and Aragon, in the hope of starting another Crusade. Although another Crusade did not materialise, Edward and Eleanor stayed in Europe for several years until 1289. When they returned to England it was clear that the two youngsters had been over-indulged by their grandmother. This caused their mother to be concerned that maybe history was repeating itself, as her older daughter,
Joan of Acre, had been brought up and spoiled by her maternal grandmother,
Joan, Countess of Ponthieu, leading the child to become disobedient and rebellious who "stood in no awe of her parents". Edward though continued to spoil Elizabeth, much as his mother had done, as it's believed Elizabeth was his favorite child. In October 1290, Elizabeth's mother became ill and she was summoned to see her at
King John's Palace in
Clipstone in
Nottinghamshire. Eleanor died at
Harby, Nottinghamshire on 28 November 1290. Elizabeth was just eight years old. The king took his late wife back to London for burial at
Westminster Abbey, ordering stone crosses to be erected at the places they stopped en route. These became known as
Eleanor crosses. ==First marriage==