She was born Emelia Batten, daughter of the Rev. Samuel Ellis Batten (1792–1830), master at
Harrow School, and Caroline Venn, daughter of
John Venn. A friend of the children of
John William Cunningham, and close to
James Fitzjames Stephen, she was present in March 1851 when Stephen met Mary Richenda Cunningham, his future wife, for the second time, and fell in love. She herself married
Russell Gurney in 1852. The Gurneys lived in London at 8
Kensington Palace Gardens, from around 1854. She was a founder of the
Kensington Society of 1865–8, A committee was set up after
Elizabeth Blackwell lectured on medical training for women, in 1859, and Gurney belonged to it. She helped
Elizabeth Garrett, the medical pioneer, with an introduction to
William Hawes (1805–1885) (as a grandson of
William Hawes (1736–1808) he was related to Russell Gurney); and the Gurneys supported the dispensary Garrett set up in 1866. Emelia confided to Elizabeth Garrett her ambivalence about the use of "feminine arts" to get ahead. In 1865 she travelled with her husband to
Jamaica, a commissioner investigating the handling of the
Morant Bay rebellion; and wrote of conditions there, in the form of a journal addressed to her mother. In December 1867 Gurney was one of the initial members of
Emily Davies's executive committee, that raised funds for
Girton College. With
Maria Georgina Grey and
Emily Shirreff she founded
The Girls' Public Day School Company. Before her husband died, in 1878, she was reticent about her activist views. == Legacy ==