In 1864, she married
Hugo Meynell-Ingram, who was the last surviving descendant of
Sir Arthur Ingram. He was eighteen years older than her, and they met through a mutual friend (
Lady Harcourt) whilst Emily was visiting Chiswick. They came from politically very different houses: the Woods were
Whigs, whereas the Meynell-Ingrams were
Tories. Once Emily and Hugo were married, they spent most of their married lives at Hoar Cross in Staffordshire, using Temple Newsam as a place to stay when they went hunting. When her husband died in 1871 from a hunting accident, she became a widow and childless at the age of 31 after 8 years of marriage. She was devastated by her husband's death, and to commemorate his memory, she built a church near Hoar Cross Hall. Known as
Hoar Cross Holy Angels Church. She inherited all of the Meynell Ingram properties and wealth. After losing her husband, she came to rely on her family, with her younger brother (Fredrick) and his wife (Mary), who moved into Temple Newsam with her. In addition to this, she found great comfort in her
Anglo-Catholic faith, spending time and money building new churches in memory of her husband and investing in charitable institutions. She had acquired a large collection primarily from the 17th century. Coincidentally, prior to owning the collection, in a letter to her brother on 5 June 1860, she wrote about her love of 17th-century art and how she hoped to own some paintings of her own from the period. Due to the values of the time and her religious beliefs, any pieces in her collection that were thought to be distasteful or erotic were either disposed of or cleaned up, concealing any offensive elements. Through her inheritance, charity work and renovations, Emily Ingram became one of the richest and most independent women in the country. Often throwing lavish dinners and shooting parties. One highlight of her social career was hosting
King George V and Queen Mary in 1894 on their official visit to Leeds. Emily Charlotte Meynell-Ingram died in 1904 at Temple Newsam House. Her funeral was held at Hoar Cross Hall, and she was buried next to her husband at Hoar Cross Holy Angels Church. Since she and Hugo did not have any children, the Meynell-Ingram estates and wealth were passed down to her nephew. Today, Temple Newsam House is maintained by
Leeds City Council under
Leeds Museums and Galleries. Hoar Cross Hall is now a spa resort, with parts of the grounds being used as a car park. == Religion and Buildings==