Lee taught as a young woman, before she married and became known as Emma Virginia Kelley. In widowhood, she moved to
Norfolk, Virginia, where she founded the "
Daughters of the Improved Benevolent and Protective Order of Elks of the World," the first women's auxiliary to the
Improved Benevolent and Protective Order of Elks of the World (IBPOEW), a black fraternal organization, in 1903. The organization was affiliated with the
National Council of Negro Women. She wrote a short history of the organization, published posthumously in 1943. She served as the President of the Missionary Society at her church,
Queen Street Baptist Church in Norfolk, Virginia, from 1902 to 1932 and as the Superintendent of Sunday School for over two decades. Kelley also was the director of the Norfolk Metropolitan Bank and Trust Company, treasurer of the Colored United Charities, and a trustee of the Norfolk Community Hospital. ==Personal life==