Eugenia Scholay Washington was born on June 27, 1838, at "Megwillie"
plantation near
Charles Town in
Jefferson County,
Virginia (now
West Virginia), to William Temple Washington (1800–1877) and his wife, Margaret Calhoun Fletcher (1805–1865). The name of the plantation on which she was born, "Megwillie", was a
portmanteau of both her mother and father's nicknames. Through her father, Washington was the granddaughter of
George Steptoe Washington (1771–1809) and Lucy Payne Washington Todd (1772?–1846). She was also the great-granddaughter of
Samuel Washington (1734–1781, younger brother of
George Washington) and his wife Annie Steptoe, and the great-grandniece of George Washington (1732–1799). Her grandfather, George Steptoe Washington, was a "favorite nephew" of George Washington and was left an inheritance following Washington's death. Flechir's grandson and Washington's grandfather,
Thomas Fletcher, served on the staff of General
William Henry Harrison in the
War of 1812. Thomas Fletcher married Nancy McIlhenney and was the son of Samuel Fletcher and Abigail West. Washington's father suffered from
paralysis, and she cared for him from a young age. ==American Civil War==