Core value or Kapwa (shared inner self) Kapwa is the core construct of Filipino Psychology.
Kapwa has two categories,
Ibang Tao and
Hindi Ibang Tao. •
Ibang Tao ("outsider") There are five interaction levels under this category: •
Pakikitungo: civility – right behavior meant right demeanor towards authorities (Parents, Elders, etc.). •
Pakikisalamuha: act of mixing – This is a social value that is primarily communitarian. It espouses the ability to adapt. •
Pakikilahok: act of joining – This translates to participation of the entire community to help a person. •
Pakikibagay: conformity – This runs into conflict with individuality which many Filipinos in fact willingly throw away in favor of conformity with demands of those who are in charge. •
Pakikisama: being united with the group. •
Hindi Ibang Tao ("one-of-us") There are three interaction levels under this category: •
Pakikipagpalagayang-loob: it is the act of mutual trust •
Pakikisangkot: act of joining others •
Pakikipagkaisa: being one with others
Pivotal interpersonal value •
Pakiramdam: Shared inner perceptions. Filipinos use
damdam, or the inner perception of others' emotions, as a basic tool to guide their dealings with other people.
Linking socio-personal value •
Kagandahang-Loob: Shared humanity. This refers to being able to help other people in dire need due to a perception of being together as a part of one Filipino humanity.
Accommodative surface values •
Hiya: Loosely translated as 'shyness' by most Western psychologists,
Hiya is actually 'sense of propriety'. •
Utang na loob: Norm of reciprocity. Filipinos are expected by their neighbors to return favors—whether these were asked for or not—when it is needed or wanted. •
Pakikisama and Pakikipagkapwa: Smooth Interpersonal Relationship, or SIR, as coined by Lynch (1961 and 1973). This attitude is primarily guided by conformity with the majority.
Confrontative surface values •
Bahala na: it is translated as "determination in the face of uncertainty" and is used as an expression, almost universally, in Filipino culture. American psychologist Bostrom describes that Filipinos engage in the
bahala na attitude equivalent to American fatalism and escapism. Contrary to the connotation of passive fatalism and escapism suggested by Bostrom, "bahala na" would be a confrontative attitude. It is risk-taking in the face of the proverbial cloud of uncertainty, and the possibility of failure. It is also about an indication of an acceptance of the nature of things, including the inherent limitations of one's self. •
Lakas ng loob: This attitude is characterized by being courageous in the midst of problems and uncertainties. •
Pakikibaka: Literally in English, it means
concurrent clashes. It refers to the ability of the Filipino to undertake revolutions and uprisings against a common enemy.
Societal values •
Karangalan: Loosely translated to dignity, this actually refers to what other people see in a person and how they use that information to make a stand or judge about his/her worth. •
Puri: the external aspect of dignity. May refer to how other people judge a person of his/her worth. This compels a common Filipino to conform to social norms, regardless how obsolete they are. •
Dangal: the internal aspect of dignity. May refer to how a person judges his own worth. •
Katarungan: Loosely translated to justice, this actually refers to equity in giving rewards to a person. •
Kalayaan: Freedom and mobility. Ironically, this may clash with the less important value of
pakikisama or
pakikibagay (conformity). ==Approaches and methods==