Carter was controversial as a male survivor of the
Titanic, in part because he got in the last lifeboat with Ismay, who many thought should have gone down with his company's ship. On April 22, 1912, Carter defended himself and Ismay, saying: "The statements which have been made by Mr. Ismay's conduct are an injustice to him. …The women that were in the boat were from steerage, with their children. I guess there were about forty of them. Mr. Ismay and myself and several of the officers walked up and down the deck, crying 'Are there more women here?' We called for several minutes and got no answer. One of the officers then declared that if we wanted to we could get into the boat if we took the place of a seaman. He gave us this preference because we were among the first-class passengers. Mr. Ismay called again, and after we got no reply we got into the lifeboat. We took the oars and rowed with the two seamen." Carter fell on his head, and the pony rolled on top of him. Although most news accounts say Carter received a "slight concussion," it appears he was actually in a coma, as he was still unconscious days later. He survived, but was unable to play polo again. Two years later, on June 15, 1914, the Carters divorced. In her testimony, she said, "When the
Titanic struck, my husband came to our stateroom and said 'Get up and dress yourself and the children.' I never saw him again until I arrived on the
Carpathia at 8 o'clock the next morning, when I saw him lying on the rail. All he said was that he had had a jolly good breakfast and that he never thought I would make it." After the divorce, the Bryn Mawr home was sold. Lucile remarried quickly, on August 16, 1914. Carter never remarried and lived at Ivy Cottage in
Rosemont, Pennsylvania. He worked in banking with
Cassatt & Company in Philadelphia. He continued to travel to England for the hunting season. He also judged horse shows in New York and Philadelphia. == Later life ==