Gaetana Tolomeo - known also as Nuccia - was born in Catanzaro - on 10 April 1936 (on
Good Friday) to Salvatore Tolomeo and Carmela Palermo (who both
married on 29 November 1933). Her birth was not registered until 19 April which on the official documents was considered her date of birth. Teodoro Diaco
baptized her on 12 July 1936 in the Chiesa della Madonna del Rosario. Her maternal aunt was Elvira Palermo. Her brother Giuliano was born on 30 October 1940 but died around 1944. In her childhood she suffered from a progressive and deforming paralysis that stunted her growth and left her disabled. Her parents sought out treatment for her and so sent her to an aunt in
Cuneo where she could be treated. The doctors in Cuneo were unable to help alleviate her condition and so Tomelo returned to her hometown. Her condition progressed as she grew older which left her confined either to her bed or to a chair. But despite her condition she saw this as God using her suffering to reach the hearts of others in an effort to convert them from their sins. This was something that Tolomeo was adamant about for her entire life and which was also manifested in some of her writings. But Tolomeo also saw her condition as a participation in the
Passion of Christ and also alluded to this in her spiritual writings. Tolomeo also for a time was a member of
Catholic Action. Those who came to visit her all noticed the fact that at all times she held clasped in her hands a
rosary and Tolomeo herself was a frequent attendee for
Eucharistic adoration. People from her town and surrounding areas knew of her and came to her seeking advice which also included
priests and small families. In 1994 she began to collaborate with the local
radio station "Radio Maria" in order to spread the message of the gospel to the suffering (with whom she identified) but also to drug addicts and prostitutes while also extending her outreach to families in need facing difficulties. Tolomeo often made appearances on the
Il Fratello program in which the host Federico Quaglini would interview her and discuss spiritual matters with her. Tolomeo also had a strong devotion to
Pio of Pietrelcina. Tolomeo suffered a
pulmonary edema and was admitted to hospital where she received a
blood transfusion. Her health continued to decline until her death on 24 January 1997; her death was announced on
Radio Maria the following morning. Her cousin Ida Chiefari wrote the first official biographical account of Tomelo's life. == Veneration ==