Tochman served as an officer (
lieutenant or even
major according to various sources) during the
November Uprising. After the
Battle of Białołęka he was awarded
Virtuti Militari as a testimony to his bravery. With the defeat of the Insurgents Tochman was forced to flee with Gen.
Maciej Rybiński's Corps. He emigrated to
Avignon, France where he served as secretary of the Polish Council and later traveled through France in hopes of gathering more supporters. During that time he joined the
Eagle and Pahonia freemason lodge. In 1837 Tochman became
persona non grata for the French government and decided to emigrate to
United States. He worked as
French teacher in
New York City until 1840 when he was granted citizenship and began studying American civil law - this enabled him to acquire attorney licence and start a
practice of law in
Washington D.C. in 1845. He was an active member of the
Polish diaspora - from 1840 to 1844 he gave over a hundred lectures on the situation of then
partitioned Poland. An account published by the
Baltimore Sun described him as a patriot of high reputation who was capable of "thrilling bursts of eloquence". His speeches were published in 1844 in
Lecture on the social, political and literary condition of Poland, and her future prospects. Tochman tried both to integrate the Polish community - by establishing the Polish-Slavonic Literary Society which gathered also many Americans - as well as sought contact with prominent US officials; his house in Virginia was visited by
Abraham Lincoln,
William Seward or
Samuel Tilden among others. As an active sympathiser of the
Democratic Party he was elected Virginia State Elector. In 1851, he married
Appolonia Jagiello, a widely celebrated military nurse who had previously accompanied
László Újházi in his efforts to establish a Hungarian colony in the United States for exiles of the unsuccessful
Hungarian Revolution of 1848. Tochman represented the Kościuszko family during the inheritance court battle between them and the
Russian Empire represented by the Russian diplomatic representative
Aleksandr Bodisko. ==Civil War==