Social transitioning is the process of changing the way one presents their gender to others.The social process of transitioning can begin with '
coming out', where others are told that one does not identify with their
birth sex. The newly out trans person may adopt a new name, ask to be referred to with a new set of pronouns, and change their presentation to better reflect their identity. People may socially transition at any age, with documented cases of children as
young as 5, or adults as old as 75. While many of those who socially transition will pursue a medical transition, not everyone can access gender affirming care, and not all may wish to pursue it.
Passing refers to the perception and recognition of trans people as their desired gender identity by outsiders who may not know they are transgender. For many trans people, passing is a very important aspect of their transition often seen as an 'end goal'. Passing can greatly alleviate gender dysphoria. Failure to pass can cause serious repercussions for trans people's psychological well-being and safety, including but not limited to:
poor mental health,
discrimination, increased barriers to medical care, harassment, fetishization, ostracization, increased risk of homelessness, and
targeted violence due to increased visibility of one's transgender status. Going 'full-time' refers to the act of living everyday life as one's identified gender. People who go full-time may or may not fully pass, and may or may not keep their transgender identity a secret. Going 'stealth' refers to the act of living as one's identified gender without revealing oneself to be transgender. In some countries, being stealth may be a safety necessity, due to health, safety, and wellbeing risks of being openly transgender.
Legal aspects Transgender people in many parts of the world can legally
change their name to something consistent with their gender identity. Some regions also allow one's legal sex marker changed on documents such as
driver licenses,
birth certificates, and
passports. The exact requirements vary from jurisdiction to jurisdiction; some require
sex reassignment surgery, while many do not. In addition, some states that require sex reassignment surgery will only accept 'bottom surgery', or a genital reconstruction surgery, as a valid form of sex reassignment surgery, while other states allow other forms of gender confirmation surgery to qualify individuals for changing information on their birth certificates. In some U.S. states, it is also possible for transgender individuals to legally change their gender on their drivers license without having had any form of qualifying gender confirmation surgery.
Social repercussions A person's ideas about gender in general may change as part of their transition, which may affect their
religious, philosophical or political beliefs. In addition, personal relationships can take on different dynamics after coming out. For instance, what was originally a lesbian couple may become a heterosexual one as a partner comes out as a trans man - or parents of a boy may become parents of a girl after their child comes out as a trans woman. Over the course of a gender transition, people who are close to the transitioning individual may experience a sense of loss and work through a
grieving process. This type of loss is an
ambiguous loss, characterized by feelings of grief where the item of loss is obscure. Family members may grieve for the gendered expectations that their loved one will no longer follow, whereas the transgender person themself may feel rejected by their relatives' need to grieve. Feelings that arise are described as a way of seeing the person who is transitioning as the same, but different, or both present and absent. == Medical transition ==