George met
Edward Carpenter on a train in 1891. When the head of his household, George Adams, retired in February 1898, Merrill moved in. Carpenter owned a
small holding at
Millthorpe, Derbyshire,. Merrill arrived at Millthorpe that February in a blizzard, "trundling with the help of two boys all his worldly goods in a handcart over the hills, and through a disheartening blizzard of snow."
Life with Edward Merrill had previously worked in a newspaper office, a hotel, and an ironworks. He was always officially Carpenter's servant, and he undertook the cooking and cleaning in the home, decorating and placing flowers in every room. Carpenter noted that "George in fact was accepted and one may say beloved by both my manual worker friends and my more aristocratic friends." He had a fine baritone voice and liked to sing comical songs. The two lived openly as a couple for almost forty years, until Merrill's death in 1928. Carpenter died the following year and was buried beside Merrill at the
Mount Cemetery in
Guildford, Surrey. ==
Maurice ==