In the late 1890s, the Duke of Marlborough invited Deacon to
Blenheim Palace and she became friends with his wife
Consuelo. In 1901, the
Crown Prince of Prussia visited the palace and took a strong liking to her, giving her a ring that the
Kaiser demanded be returned. Artistic and a keen gardener, the new Duchess of Marlborough had enlarged images of her startling blue-green eyes painted on the ceiling of the main portico of Blenheim Palace, where they remain today. Later in their unhappy, childless marriage, she kept a revolver in her bedroom to prevent her husband's entry. As her behaviour became increasingly erratic, most noticeably following the Duke's conversion to Roman Catholicism, the couple began drifting apart. The Duchess pursued her hobby of breeding
Blenheim Spaniels, much to her husband's displeasure. Finally, the duke moved out of the palace, and two years later evicted her.
Widowhood and death The Dowager Duchess of Marlborough moved with her dogs first to north
Oxfordshire and later to the Grange Farm at
Chacombe. She started retreating from the world and eventually became a complete nocturnal recluse surrounded by cats. By 1962, she had become mentally ill, much like her father and paternal grandmother, ==In popular culture==