Upon her removal to
Quincy, Illinois, she formed the acquaintance of Hon. James Harvey Ralston (1807–1864), and they married shortly afterward, in 1853. Judge Ralston was a leading man in Illinois and held various important offices in that State. After serving as an officer in the Mexican War, he turned his attention again to the practice of law, settling in the then new State of
California. On their wedding day, Judge and Mrs. Ralston set out from New York for the Pacific coast, enjoying on the way the tropical beauties of the Nicaraguan Isthmus. They had two children, Jackson Harvey Ralston and Mary Aurora Ralston. Her married life was spent in
Sacramento, California, and
Virginia City and
Austin, Nevada. Judge Ralston died in 1864 near Austin, which came to be known as Ralston Desert. Ralston wrote many poems, which, although never published in a collected volume, were published and widely copied by the press in single form. She was the author of "Fatherless Joe," "Decoration Day," "The Spectral Feast," "The Queen's Jewels" and "The White Cross of Savoy," for which poem
King Humbert of Italy sent her a letter of thanks and appreciation. Among her numerous poems may be specially mentioned "The Queen's Jewels", written for the occasion of a banquet given by the Woman's National Press Association of Washington, D.C., of which she was a member, to the delegates of the Pan-American Congress assembled in that city, and for which poem she has received many acknowledgments from the representatives of Central and South American governments. Her best work was her poem, "Columbus and Isabella — The Immortals". She took an active interest in philanthropic and social movements. ==Later life==