Henriette, Lady Abel Smith

Henriette was born at Hatherop Castle in Gloucestershire, the daughter of Commander Francis Charles Cadogan, a Royal Navy officer of Quenington Old Rectory, Cirencester, (a grandson of Henry Charles Cadogan, 4th Earl Cadogan) by his wife Ruth Evelyn Howard, a daughter of Sir Edward Stafford Howard, a great-nephew of Bernard Howard, 12th Duke of Norfolk. ==Career==

She held the office of a Lady-in-Waiting to Queen Elizabeth II from 1949 to 1987. In 1987 she became an Extra Lady-in-Waiting. She served as a Justice of the Peace (JP) for Tunbridge Wells in 1955, and for Gloucestershire in 1971. She was invested as a Commander of the Royal Victorian Order in the 1964 New Year Honours, and was elevated to Dame Commander of the Royal Victorian Order in 1977. ==Marriages and issue==

Henriette married twice. Firstly on 4 September 1939, she married Major Sir Anthony Frederick Mark Palmer, 4th Baronet. They had a son and a daughter: • Antonia Mary Palmer (born 2 August 1940), wife of Lord Christopher John Thynne, younger brother of Alexander Thynn, 7th Marquess of Bath. • Sir Mark Palmer, 5th Baronet (born 1941), First Page of Honour to the Queen 1956–1959. In 1941, her husband was killed in the Second World War. Secondly on 17 February 1953, she married Brigadier Sir Alexander Abel Smith (1904–1980), the younger brother of Sir Henry Abel Smith (who in 1931 had married into the Royal Family). They also had a son and a daughter: • Christopher Abel Smith (born 28 June 1954), a godson of Queen Elizabeth II and First Page of Honour to the Queen 1967–1970. • Juliet Sarah Abel Smith (born 26 August 1955) Abel Smith died on 3 May 2005 at The Garden House, Cirencester, Gloucestershire, aged 90. ==Awards==