, the Harjes home near Paris. On 20 October 1897, Harjes was married to heiress Marie Robertina Graves (1873–1905) at "My Fancy", the country home of
Malcolm Webster Ford in
Babylon on
Long Island. Ford was married to Marie's sister, the former Janet Wilhelmina Graves. She was a daughter of Robert Graves and Cesarine (née Barbey) Graves. Together, they were the parents of two daughters: • Hope Dorothy Harjes (1898–1923), who died in a riding accident. • Cesarine Amelia Marie Harjes (1899–1949), who married banker Ralph Wormely Curtis (1908–1973), a son of
Ralph Wormeley Curtis, in 1930. After the death of his first wife in
Carlsbad, New Mexico from
tuberculosis in 1905, he remarried several years later to Frederica Vesta (née Berwind) Gilpin (1884–1954) on 20 February 1911 at the church in the Rue de Berri. Frederica, who was divorced from Charles Gilpin III in January 1911, was a daughter of
Charles Frederick Berwind (brother of
Edward Julius Berwind and
Julia Berwind) and Anita (née Hickman) Berwind. Two of her sisters Edith, Baroness
von Kleist, and Fanny, Countess
von Montgelas, married into the German aristocracy. Together, Frederica and Henry lived at 49 rue de la Faisanderie in Paris (which won the
Concours de façades de la ville de Paris in 1905 and was designed by Danish architect
Hans-Georg Tersling) were the parents of: who married Elizabeth Schuster (1913–1980) in 1935. • Henry Herman Harjes Jr. (1912–1994), who married Joan Blake (1916–1983), a granddaughter of
William Phipps Blake and half-sister of Mrs.
Irving Berlin, in 1934. They divorced in 1947, and he married Tauni de Lesseps (1915–2001), a granddaughter of
Ferdinand de Lesseps, in 1947. • John Frederick Harjes (1914–1972), a
Cambridge University graduate who married, and divorced, twice. In 1920, he acquired from the
Duke de Vallombrosa the
Château d'Abondant, a four story château set on 200 acres of landscaped grounds outside of Paris. The Château d'Abondant was designed by architect
Jean Mansart de Jouy and was among a trio of châteaus located near
Dreux, in the
Eure-et-Loir department in northern France, including
Château d'Anet and
Château Saint-Georges Motel (owned by
Consuelo Vanderbilt). near Paris. Harjes died on 20 August 1926 in
Deauville. He left his entire estate to his wife and three children, with his wife and
John Ridgeley Carter as co-executors. The American Cathedral vestry honored him as the longest-serving vestry member and remarked: "He made America to be honored in France." Ten years after his death, his wife remarried to Seton Porter (in 1936), and lived at
834 Fifth Avenue in New York City. She died in
Newport, Rhode Island in June 1954. ==References==