Initially, Northumberland's relations with the other great northern family, the
Nevilles, were friendly. He was already connected to the
Beaufort-Nevilles through his marriage with Eleanor Neville, and in 1426 he married his sister Elizabeth to the young
Ralph Neville, 2nd Earl of Westmorland. The king intervened on the archbishop's side, though Northumberland remained in favour at court. Nevertheless, he spent less time involved in central affairs at Westminster in the later 1440s. What triggered the conflict was the marriage between Salisbury's son Thomas and Maud Stanhope, niece and heiress of
Lord Cromwell. By this marriage
Wressle Castle, which had traditionally been in the possession of the Percy family, would pass to the Nevilles. At the same time, the Neville-Cromwell wedding had led Huntingdon (now
Duke of Exeter) to join the cause of the Percys, because of a territorial dispute with Cromwell. Northumberland himself, who was nearing sixty, did not take action at the time, but one of his younger sons did.
Thomas Percy had been created
Baron Egremont in 1449, relating to his possessions in the Neville-dominated county of
Cumberland. On 24 August 1453, Thomas attacked the Neville-Cromwell wedding party at
Heworth near York with a force of over 700 men. The conflict, however, continued over the following years. On 8 October, Northumberland and Salisbury were summoned to court and ordered to end the conflict, but the warnings were ignored. Both sides had ignored royal commands to disband, and battle seemed inevitable, but eventually a truce ensued and the forces withdrew. The conflict was escalating, and converging with events in national politics. ==Towards civil war==