in
Derbyshire). (left), 1583. In reality, they were separated when he was still a baby. On 3 February 1565, Darnley left London; by 12 February, he was in
Edinburgh. On 17 February, he presented himself to Mary at
Wemyss Castle in
Fife. Mary and Darnley had known each other since 1560, when his parents sent him to France to present themselves to Mary and offer their respects and condolences on the death of her first husband, Francis II.
James Melville of Halhill reported that "Her Majesty took well with him, and said that he was the lustiest and best proportioned long man that she had seen." Mary immediately fell in love with the “long lad” as she initially called Darnley. —Elizabeth I mentioned in one of her writings that he was over six feet tall or about 1.80 m—. After a brief visit to his father at
Dunkeld, Darnley returned with Mary and the court to
Holyrood on 24 February. The next day, he heard
John Knox preach, and he danced a
galliard with Mary at night. He was constantly in Mary's company from then on. Darnley was his wife's half-first cousin through two different marriages of their grandmother,
Margaret Tudor, putting Mary and Darnley high in the line of succession for the English throne. Darnley was also a descendant of a daughter of
James II of Scotland, and so also in line for the throne of Scotland. As a preliminary to the marriage, Darnley was made a
knight, Lord of Ardmanoch and
Earl of Ross at
Stirling Castle on 15 May 1565. An entourage of 15 men were made knights, including one of Mary's half brothers,
Robert Stewart of Strathdon,
Robert Drummond of Carnock,
James Stewart of
Doune Castle, and
William Murray of
Tullibardine. In England, a concerned
Privy council debated the perils of the intended marriage on 4 June. One of their resolutions was to relax the displeasure shown to Lady
Catherine Grey, another rival to Mary Stuart for the English throne and at that time with better rights to the throne than the Scottish monarch. Mary sent
William Maitland of Lethington to London to inform Elizabeth of her marriage plan, and
Nicholas Throckmorton was sent to Edinburgh to convey her "miscontentment". Elizabeth suggested that one of her favorite courtiers,
Robert Dudley, 1st Earl of Leicester should marry Mary, but Leicester, whose distinguished reputation at the Elizabethan court had been tarnished by the death, under suspicious circumstances, of his first wife,
Amy Robsart, in September 1560, refused to marry Mary, and instead worked in the interest of Darnley. As it became clear that Mary intended to marry Darnley, Elizabeth regretted allowing him and his father to travel to Scotland, and on 18 June she requested their return. On 22 July, Darnley was made
Duke of Albany in
Holyrood Abbey, and the
banns of marriage were called in the parish of Canongate. A proclamation was made at the
Cross of Edinburgh on 28 July 1565 that government would be in the joint names of the king and queen of Scots, thus making Darnley king and giving him equality with and precedence over Mary. This was confirmed in the circulation of a silver ryal in the names of Henry and Mary. On 29 July 1565, the
marriage took place by Roman Catholic rites in Mary's private chapel at Holyrood, but Darnley (whose religious beliefs were unfixed – he was raised as a Catholic, but was later influenced by Protestantism) refused to accompany Mary to the nuptial Mass after the wedding.
John Knox wrote that Darnley went to his pastime (hunting with a Hawk) after the wedding while Mary went to the Mass. He said the dancing and banqueting went on for three or four days. Because the couple were first cousins, a papal dispensation was needed for the marriage, which was initially celebrated without the dispensation because the
Holy See delayed issuing it.
Rome issued the dispensation on September 25, thus validating the marriage between Mary and Darnley. The marriage enraged Elizabeth because she considered Darnley, who was born and raised in England, to be her subject and had married without her permission. The marriage also posed a serious threat to Elizabeth because both Darnley and Mary had claims to the English throne as descendants of
Henry VII, the first monarch of the reigning
House of Tudor, and the English Catholics considered Mary to be the rightful heir to the throne, rather than Elizabeth who was Protestant. Furthermore, any son they might have would be a clear claimant to the throne of England. In response to Henry's marriage, Elizabeth sent a diplomat
John Tamworth to present her grievances to Mary. When Mary did not provide a suitable response, Elizabeth raged against Darnley's family, ordering the imprisonment of her first cousin and Darnley's mother, Lady Margaret, in the
Tower of London. Margaret remained imprisoned in the Tower until she was freed shortly after her son's murder. The marriage between Mary and the son of Scotland's premier Catholic nobleman alarmed the Protestant nobility, precipitating the Queen's half-brother,
James Stewart, Earl of Moray, along with the earls of
Argyll,
Glencairn, and
Rothes to take up arms against Mary. Protestant noblemen were worried that the marriage would mean Scotland would take a turn towards Catholicism. The rebellion, known as the
Chaseabout Raid, was soon defeated by the royal forces, and Moray was forced to escape to England, where he sought Elizabeth's asylum. ==Estrangement==