According to tradition, the Greeks structured military units along
tribal lines, a practice attributed to
Nestor in the
Homeric epics. The Theban military commander
Pammenes, however, is supposed to have advocated military organization based on pairs of lovers: One such example took place during the
Lelantine War between the
Eretrians and the
Chalcidians. In a decisive battle the
Chalcidians called for the aid of a warrior named
Cleomachus. Cleomachus answered their request and brought his lover along with him. He charged against the Eretrians and brought the
Chalcidians to victory at the cost of his own life. It was said he was inspired with love during the battle. Afterwards, the
Chalcidians erected a tomb for him in their
marketplace and reversed their negative view of military homosexuality and began to honor it.
Aristotle attributed a popular local
song to the event: The importance of these relationships in military formation was not without controversy. According to
Xenophon, the
Spartans abhorred the thought of using the relationships as the basis of unit formation for placing too much significance on
sexuality rather than talent. This was due to their founder
Lycurgus who attacked lusts on physical beauty regarding it as shameful.
Xenophon asserted that in some city-states the lovers would not even have conversations with one another. He said this type of behavior was horrible because it was entirely based on physical attractions: Nonetheless, city states that employed the practice in determining military formation enjoyed some success. The
Thebans had one such regiment as the core of their entire army. They attributed this group called the
Sacred Band of Thebes for making Thebes the most powerful city-state for a generation until its fall to
Philip II of Macedon.
Philip II of Macedon was so impressed with their bravery during the battle he erected a monument that still stands today on their gravesite. He also gave a harsh criticism of the
Spartan views of the band: One of the prominent Greek military figures enjoying such a relationship was
Epaminondas, considered the greatest warrior-statesmen of ancient Thebes by many, including the
Roman historian
Diodorus Siculus. He had two male lovers:
Asopichus, who fought together with him at the
battle of Leuctra, where he greatly distinguished himself, and
Caphisodorus, the latter died with him at
Mantineia in battle. Epaminondas and Caphisodorus were buried together, something usually reserved for a husband and wife in Greek society. Another pair of warrior-lovers—
Harmodius and Aristogeiton—credited with the downfall of
tyranny in Athens and the rise of
democracy became the emblem of the city. The
Roman Greek author
Polyaeneus writes on the bravery of the Sacred Band of Thebes which he attributes to their shared passionate love for each other: Aside from a viewpoint of homosexual bonds as conducive to bravery, these relations are thought to have formed for a number of other reasons. Between some soldiers, who were often away from home and their wives, who with few exceptions could not follow their husbands on campaign, same-sex relations served as one of many outlets to satisfy their sexual desires. Indeed, marriage was not seen as the relation which would necessarily fulfill erotic desires. In particular for men, though they were expected to marry a woman, it was normal to engage in extramarital sexual relations. Homosexual attraction sometimes existed in the form of pederasty, which influenced ancient Greek and especially Spartan military practices. This usually consisted in romantic relations and mentoring by adult men with male youths. Pederastic relations are thought to have played some role with Sparta’s overarching “contest-system” or the
agoge, which aimed to shape male Spartans into soldiers. The Spartan general
Anaxibius is described as having died fighting with a youth he loved by his side, though the origin or social status of this youth is unclear as he is not described as a soldier. This relationship may have been an uncharacteristic extension of pederastic feeling to a youth who was not necessarily Spartan and possibly a slave, considering how he was accompanying rather than fighting alongside Anaxibius. ==See also==